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he wants to be with you and he gives himself to you, ...how about i will leave my wife to be with you.
Normally he will love his mistress or he wouldn't leave his wife.
Is she in love or lust? If he is cheating on his wife for the mistress. Chances are he'll get another mistress if she becomes his 2nd wife. Drop him and find someone who will be faithful to the women he makes commitments to.
Possibly, if he thinks he can get away with it. The better question might be, "If he was caught, and yet did not take that opportunity to leave his wife, why would a mistress have anything more to do with him?"
A man who has cheated on his wife with a mistress and then does it again with you, is a man who is motivated by lust, and who will never be sexually faithful to anyone. If he should ever tell you that he intends to leave his wife and marry you instead, don't believe him.
Sit down and think, if it wasn't for the mistress, would you want to leave your wife? If you are doing it for yourself (and as a bonus get to be with the other woman that you love) then go for it!
Its rather enjoying to see a wife harrass a woman who is cheating with her husband. Most of the time its the other way around. I guess the mistress is crying to you about it am I right,she's getting what she deserves and your wife should kick your butt to the curb so you can move in with the mistress. You and your mistress deserve each other, maybe your wife will find a man who really cares about her. ANSWER: Or we could turn it around, the mistress is the one harassing the wife..
A bit on a negative side. Married men thinks that if they leave their wife for their mistress, his life will be different. He will assume that what he have now with his mistress will be much fun that what his been having with his wife, until he finds out the behavior of his mistress or vice versa. Few married men who left their wife only last 3-4 months, and there are some that last a year, no longer.
You will be in a lot of trouble with both the wife and the mistress, and possibly the police.
she meant that it is because the wife of a cheating husband is trying to do such things that the mistress of his husband realize that what she did was wrong. ANSWER: I think the wife is telling the mistress that she can have him, so she will not have to deal with pain and bad memories. And letting him go is her way to forgive him.
The other woman is called a 'mistress' and men often will tell the other woman they are interested in his rendition of his relationship with his wife and the best quote of all 'she doesn't understand me' is used. Understand that is what the mistress should be asking if she has the smarts. A woman that plays around with another woman's husband may be simply using him and does not want to commit to him, but get what she can out of him or, stupidly thinks she is a far better woman than the wife and a high percentage is that she is no better than the wife and in time the married man will cheat on his mistress as well. A mistress is often used as a sexual relationship and a good percentage of men that cheat will want to stay with their wives. Many women fall in love yet think they can change the person they fell in love with.ANSWER:Maybe he told his mistress that he will leave his wife because his not happy anymore., so he can be with you. Or it could be he doesn't want to loose you that is why he told you white lies, it depends..
You will have to divorce your wife.