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Can I believe that my spouse is going to beat his gambling addiction and become a better person?
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∙ 16y ago
I'm tempted to "Just say "NO"!" But view it in terms of the likelihood of any person changing an addictive behavior. There are 12-step programs for gamblers--and given willingness to participate in such a program, weighed against your desire to be an "enabler"--try to figure the odds. While it's possible--the odds are probably against it There are a whole lot of individual personal variables to weigh in making any decision, and you have to weagh the costs to you and your family if he is unable to control his addiction. Good luck!
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What feels better then sex?
They say there are certain drug experiences that are. But they can become dangerously addictive. Same with gambling addiction - the Big Win can be orgasmic. Of course, sex is addictive too - but in the right way!
What are different types of substance abuse addiction?
The question is unclear.Human beings can become addicted to anything that makes them feel better temporarily: gambling, sex, shopping, drugs, alcohol. These things all allow us to alter our moods from feelings that we believe are unsatisfactory to a more comfortable state.The key is "better temporarily." If we felt better all the time, we would have no need to mood alter. The intermittent reward, and the search for MORE, is the key. Eventually our brains become used to the altered state, and it feels normal. Then we have to keep doing or using to feel OK at all. That's addiction.
You filed ch 13 because of a gambling addiction. The court now knows you have continued to gamble and am spending a fair amount of money. What is going to happen to you?
You had better start winning.
How to Handle a Gambling Addiction?
Everyone has their hobbies and interests in life, but without proper control of these interests, they can soon transform into vices. In certain circumstances, these things can lead to health issues, financial troubles, or even problems with the law.Defining a Gambling AddictionBefore you try to diagnose someone or even yourself as a compulsive gambler or a gambling addict, you should first know what you’re dealing with. It is said that a gambling addiction is an impulse-control disorder. This breaks down to the belief that the impulse to gamble cannot be controlled even when there are signs of an addiction.SignsThere are no physical signs of a gambling addiction, but there are more damaging signs that can prove to be dangerous for a person's character and emotional and mental health. If you suspect that someone you know is being secretive about their gambling habits, be wary, as this is a potential sign of an oncoming addiction. If you or someone you know gambles even when broke, or is willing to bargain for money to use for gambling, this is a major sign of an addiction.TreatmentIf you or someone you know has a gambling addiction or has displayed signs of an addiction, there are ways to help. It is important to note, however, that every gambling addict cannot be helped in the same way. Some will need to join groups that will allow them to be open and share their problems. Others may need to try a rehab program that will disconnect them from this habit and try to incorporate better habits into your life. For more extreme addictions, counseling or therapy is perhaps the best option.Maintaining ControlIt is best to avoid anything gambling related for at least six months to a year after being treated. This even includes buying scratch-off cards at the gas station. Reinforcing any habit takes time, and it is easy to lapse back into the bad ones if care isn’t taken to avoid them.RebuildingUsually, those with a gambling addiction will have depleted a large amount of their funds before getting treatment. After treatment is complete, try to save any wages earned from employment until life becomes more stable. Budgeting will be necessary until financial stability can be regained.
Who do you go to about gambling addiction ?
First you need to let the person know you are there for them and that because you care for them you can see how this addiction is destroying them. The next thing to do is get professional help. This isn't something that can be cured by self-help books etc. An anonymous gambling help group, like AA, is one of the best ways to recover simply because you are supported and surrounded by others who are going through the same experience. Lastly let that person know continuously that you are there for them and will support them in their journey to live better.
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Believe in Yourself Practice a lot.
Why do Muslims believe that the revelation of the Qu'ran was a miracle?
it opened up their lives to become a better person
What does the circle want to believe about cole in the touching spirit bear?
that he can change to become a better person
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I believe it is when you become better acquainted with him, or after you get a spouse.
What are similar characteristics to addiction to drugs with addiction to a behavior such as gambling or the internet?
well i don't believe addiction the the internet is possible. personally i think its pretty dumb that people claim they are addicted to the computer. but anyway, gambling addiction is real and those addicted to gambling end up in rehab right with the alcoholics and herion addicts. some of the characteristics they all share is they all seek instant gratification; they are all chasing a bigger and better high (or win for gamblers); they all try to justify their behavior somehow, with drug addicts doing drugs is they only way they can function, with gamblers they are trying to build a better life for their families by winning money, etc; they all ignore the consequences to their actions because they feel justified; most addicts tend to have an extreme self hatred and they are ashamed of it; and every addict never wants to quit more than when they are high (or winning for gamblers). that's when they feel good, therefor they feel they will be okay no matter what and they don't need to do it anymore. of course, it never works that way. that's when they rationalize, ok just one more time and i'll quit, just one more big win and i won't have to do this anymore, i just wanna get high one last time- but it's usually never the last time. they all put feeding their addiction above all else, although they may not want to, that becomes the most important thing. hope this answered your question.
What are the statement of the problem of drug addiction?
If you are asking what the significance of the study of addiction I can answer you there. There are many, many reasons that people study the nature of drug and alcohol addiction. Probably the main reason that people study addiction is because it has touched them somehow. Usually they have been affected by it personally or even a close family member or friend. Or other times it might just be someone that has a desire to learn about addiction. I have heard that it takes a very special person to even want to become a addiction counselor or work in the field of addiction studies. It takes someone with a lot of heart and compassion. Substance abuse is a very serious problem in the world today. Studying addiction can help people learn ways to try to better society as a whole. It can be a very interesting subject, and is usually Psychology based.
Are some addiction recovery forums better than others?
There are many addiction forums out there. Each with there own communities of people sharing and growing with one another. .
