It would seem to me that she is trying to keep the relationship purely on a friendly basis for the sake of your child. You don't want to broach the subject of your getting back together, but you may talk to her about your relationship and where you think it went wrong. If you are able to see your own mistakes, maybe even tell you are aware of how things were. But you need to get on with your own life and let her get on with hers. She probably has a hard time letting go and is attached to the child. For awhile, you were both part of her life and she probably loves you and the child, but is not sure how to interpret that. You should have a talk about this with her, ask her to define this new relationship so you are clear.
Protect your self dont wanna get pregant as his ex girlfriend do you?
when him and the child bond and get to know each other
it means that your a child. and it can mean that he thinks you should go to a park so kids can play on you
A boyfriend or stepfather has no legal right to the child so no, you can not.
straight and simple, yes.
If a child wants to live with the child's boyfriend, then the child needs to be 18.
No. Being pregnant/having a child does not give you the legal right to choose where you live.
With respect, much as he should treat her. Why would he want to be with someone who disrespected his child's mother? Why would you want to be with someone who disrespected his child's mother? Whether or not you like the ex, you'll make life so much easier for the boyfriend--and, especially, his child--if you can keep the child's welfare as your top priority in your dealings with the ex.
what if 2 year old wants to be with dad instead of mom and boyfriend living together
* Whatever differences you have together you are both the parents of your baby. You should meet your ex boyfriend in a public place and communicate to him that he has a right to see his child, but you do not love him and you are happy with your new boyfriend. It will pain him, but he'll have to accept it and if he does not listen to you and makes any threatening remarks to you or your boyfriend or he is stalking you then get the police involved.
it honestly depends on what they are talking about. if you trust your boyfriend then there should be no problem, but if there is a trust issue then maybe you should be worried. but then again it really does just depend on what they are talking about!
absoutly