The only people who know whether or not a marriage is going to work are the people in it. However, it's important to look at your motivations and understand what you're expecting and why you want to try. A husband who cheats a third time will cheat a fourth time - if that's something you're willing to accept, it may be worth it to keep your marriage. But if you're wanting to stay with him out of fear of being alone, fear of the shame of it and not because you want to be married to him (the real him--the cheater him) and you're expecting to change, you should consider what kind of marriage you do want.
yes it does happen....my husband cheated on me and i cheated on him and we both denied it for the longest time
U r messed up that is NOT a good marriage.
In my eyes it depends on how many time's he cheated. If its more than once I would leave him. ANSWER: Each individuals are different when it comes to what she wanted to do, to her marriage. There are some wives that will divorce her husband because their life will never be the same anymore. But some will linger till everything she wanted to see is going to change for better..
sit down and talk to him and see why he cheated. only if that was the first time he cheated but if not call police and tell them what is going on.
Humans simply are not perfect and if it is the first time the husband has cheated and he is remorseful then yes, he should be forgiven, but marriage counseling is a must along with the husband having to earn that bond of trust back with his spouse. If the husband is a continuous cheater then no, he should not be forgiven.
It is possible, but it will take time for trust to be rebuilt.
confront him and leave him! or atleast threten to xx
It is something that is not fixable. ANSWER: It means her marriage has a problem, like the husband never had no time for her. It doesn't matter who or what when someone turn to another person the partner is not doing what they promise to each others..
Humans aren't perfect as we all know. If this is his first fling and it's over and he feels bad about it then it's worth another chance. Then it's time to sit down, learn to communicate and start working on your marriage. You can also go to marriage counseling for extra help. If he abusive physically/mentally or has cheated more than once then kick his hide out the door and file for divorce.
Ask yourself why you did it, if it was worth it, if you love your husband. However if you want to stay with him for the sake of your marriage, both of you should try new things, spiritual quest, trips, cruise, light the fire again. Talk about your feelings to each other, spend a lot of time together.
If you are fairly sure your husband has not continuously cheated and this is the first time he has strayed then no, you wouldn't be a fool for trying to save your marriage. Sit down and talk to your husband and hopefully he will agree to go to marriage counseling. Explain to him that the psychologist is not there to blame either spouse, but to give them tools to strengthen their marriage and only there to point out where you are going wrong when communicating with each other. Communication skills and talking about each other's feelings are a necessity in any good marriage. If your husband is constantly cheating then this is a red flag that he will continue to do so and it would be to your best interest to dissolve the marriage and move on in your life.
Trust takes time to build -no magic formula- try spiffing up your love life and demonstrate your willingness and commitment to work towards a lasting marriage