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Can you be in love with your boyfriend and your best friend at the same time?
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∙ 13y ago
I know this situation from personal experience, I shared what started as a very close friendship with someone and as we grew to know each better other feelings of love began to creep in. To answer your question, it is definitely possible, love is not bound by normal rules. This is not to say that the third party will act on her feelings it may not be mutual or accepted as right.
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∙ 12y ago
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∙ 13y ago- His best friend and his wife took an oath in marriage and it is wrong for the wife to think about cheating on her husband. If she feels she has made a mistake and loves her husband's best friend then she should have the spine to sit down with her husband and be honest with him. They will have to work it out and only after divorce is she free to date someone else morally.
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∙ 13y agoof course..
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Should I be worried if my boyfriend says he loves his girl best friend the same as me?
obviously.............u should be worried.............tell ur boyfriend if u love ur best friend who is a girl then who am i.............then she will be ur girlfriend..............
How do you decide between your boyfriend who loves you but you love your best guy friend even though he denies liking you?
Wel I have a friend who is in the same situation and she hung out intell that friend liked her
What do you do when you love your boyfriend and he loves you but you also love your best friend and your best friend loves you and your best friend is dying please help?
Either tell your boyfriend you need to take a break or confort your friend in a non flirty way or cheat ( but dont do that than cause i bet you he is probebly saying that to get you in his arms ) PS: and fyi you cant love 2 people at the same time Or, you can my answer: First of all, you need to decide with no one else's opinions but your own which person you love more: your boyfriend or your best friend. If you decide that you love your boyfriend more, you need to carefully tell your best friend that you love them as a friend but you love your boyfriend more. If your best friend is a good friend, they will understand and live with the choice you choose because if they really did 'love' you, they would care about your feelings more than your own. If you decide to choose your best friend over your boyfriend, you might be in for a lot of drama with your boyfriend.. But if your best friend is really worth it, they will help you get through it and I personally think you'd be happier in the long run. But it depends on your relationships with both of them. (I know from experience because this situation has happened to me in sorta reverse. I was in love with my best guy friend, who had a girlfriend at the time. I decided to tell him my feelings for him, and he cared about me and completely understood.. But he never chose me over her. But I care about him and I completely understand his side of the situation. The moral is... If you choose your boyfriend over your best friend, your best friend will probably be really hurt, but they might get over it eventually..and painfully.) I hope this helps :) -M.
What does it mean when your boyfriend says he likes you and your best friend the same?
It means he's not "your" boyfriend.
What if you love your boyfriends best friend and he feels the same but you also love your boyfriend that you have been dating for 4 years?
You should probably cheat on your boyfriend to see if it feels right with your boyfriends best friend. And even if your boyfriend catches you, you could just blame the best friend and say he tried to rape you or something. ^^^ I have the same problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months and I have recently found out that I have feelings for his best friend. The friend likes me too and we have even tried to kiss to see how it feels. But then....crap hit the fan....the friend told my boyfriend and everything went to hell. So, in my opinion I don't think you should cheat on your boyfriend. Maybe you could take a break and try things out with the friend, but I would not cheat on him. That would make him lose trust in you and what if the fling with the best friend doesn't work out? I know, this sucks.
What if you like your boyfriends best friend but it's complicated?
What ever you do don't cheat on you boyfriend and it's OK, if you don't love your boyfriend, to tell him that you don't like him. But if you show them love both the same way or your boyfriends best friend more one of them or both is most likely going to be hurt. And in the end you can only choose one.
What can you do when your best friend is in love with the same guy as you but you have already kissed this guy and your best friend doesn't knows that?
You should really talk with your friend and explain things to her - remember no guy is worth fighting over and you can keep friends longer than a boyfriend.
What do you do if you like your Best friend More than you like your boyfriend?
Then maybe your best friend is the one. Or if you are the same gender, then you need to like your boyfriend more or find someone else.
What do you do when your best friend's boyfriend said I love you to you?
encourage a friendship between you two and tell him you dont feel the same. If you dont think you can tell you friend the truth encourage her to realize he's not the one.
If you and your best guy friend like each other what is the best way to turn him into your boyfriend?
Tell him about your feelings. If he feels the same way, he will be your boyfriend in no time. Although, if not, act normal, because their presence, be it as a friend OR a boyfriend, matters more.
What do you do if your best friend likes you and hates your boyfriend?
I'm also assuming that your best friend is somebody that you've known for a very long time. He or she is entitled to his or her own opinion. You have your reasons for liking your boyfriend and they have theirs for hating him. If your friendship with your best friend is damaged by your relationship with your boyfriend, I'm sorry to say that you'd have to reconsider labeling that friend as your "best" friend. A best friend is somebody who will be there for you through thick and thin. A best friend will still be by your side even if the person on the other side is somebody they despise. You cannot force your friend to like your boyfriend. Hate to break it to you, but high school relationships are a joke. Unless you are going to go to the same college (bad idea), it's not really going to work out in the end. You can claim to "be in love" now, but you really have no idea what that even means. If you let your [high school] boyfriend get in the way of your relationship with your "best" friend, you really have to reconsider what it means to be a "best" friend. Your relationship with your boyfriend should in no way shape or form get in the way between you and your "best" friend.
What do you do when your best friend tells you they love you or used to love you?
It depends on what kind of love like... i love you (as in boy girl love) or i love you (as in your my best friend and i love you as my best friend) hope this is useful love always charlywarlyiscool ^ Wow... Really? ^ Well, if your best friend loves you, you need to decide whether you feel the same way first of all.. And if you do, then you should probably tell them you have the same feelings before its too late and you spend the rest of your days being disappointed about what could have been. But if you don't love your best friend the same way, then you need to carefully and considerately tell them that you do love them as a friend, but you don't have the same feelings. Always be careful about how you say it, they are your best friend after all. Your best friend isn't someone you want to be careless about when its about this touchy topic.. You don't know what you have until its gone. -M.
