Can you forgive and forget?
This is a controversial question and, as a result, there are a
number of different answers.
You can forgive, but it's tough to forget and it keeps you on
your toes in future relationships. I have this quote on my fridge:
'If you can't forgive the person that hurt you then THEY control
Yes you can forgive and forget. It is so easy to forgive
somebody, rather than forget. It is hard to forget because its like
every time you see that person the memory comes back to your head.
I have been in so many situations like this. This is why you have
to be the better person and just forgive it and try to forget
yes you can forgive, no you cannot forget. but i think you can
learn from the memories and move on the past can be a springboard
to push you forward learn from your mistakes
Can you forgive and forget that you were convinced by your own
Father that putting his personals in our mouth just made you his
favorite girl? Or can you forgive and forget that your brother had
sex with you more than once and encouraged you to believe that it
was emotional bonding, like daddy did? For me, No, I can not forget
since it affects every relationship that I have ever had with the
opposite sex. Can I forgive? I can forgive me and I can forgive
them in my heart and soul, but I will never, ever give them
forgiveness for their actions. In some cases and I believe in this
case, forgiving them of such a horrible, disgusting and despicable
crime would allow them the relief of guilt that they don't deserve.
That is my opinion and it refers to me and my situation.