You can do what ever you want but the court order was put in place for a reason and to go against the judges order would put you in a tough spot. Don't know what for but assuming it had to to with domestic violence why would you want to marry someone like that anyway. I would take you seriously the next time you came in to my court room asking for a writ of this type.
See an attorney to answer all your questions.
by court order see link
Since there is no court order and you were never married it is the mother that have custody. He can be charged with kidnapping.
Why does it matter where they were married? The location not relevant. Court marriages are legal and equally valid. So if you define adultery as: voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not his or her spouse. Then Yep.
Only by court order. see links
Yes. The only way to legally prevent visitation is through court order.
Someone will need to file a motion to bring that issue before the court. see links below
You should speak with someone at the court ASAP to see if you need a court order to attach his refund.
Married with Children - 1987 I'll See You in Court 3-10 is rated/received certificates of: USA:TV-14
No. An inmate has no right to demand anything. A foster parent does not need to interrupt his schedule to meet the demands of an inmate in prison. There might be a way that someone could pay for someone else to take the child to see the inmate in prison. That would be a different story. The inmate or his family would need to pay 100% of all costs. It would be expensive. The inmate can make no demands on a foster parent.
Someone's getting married.
If there isn't any other reason (like a court order saying that you can't) then yes you can see your child.