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Yes, if you haven't started to steady date them, but once you start you should be able to talk about different things. It would take several dates perhaps (if you are a shy person) to feel totally comfortable. Not all of us are blessed with total self confidence and a smooth gift of gab, so, some of us find it painful when someone we love starts to talk to us. Sometimes our minds could just go blank, or, if we talk, we are fearful of saying something stupid. We can also be afraid they'll think we're stupid or not attractive enough. Second-guessing ourselves or others is a very dangerous game we play in our own minds. Sometimes we are our own worst enemy. If very nervous it's best to date with perhaps a friend of yours and their date and that way not all the attention is put on the two of you. The other thing you could do is go out to a movie, because couples usually don't talk in a movie theater. Then, when you leave the movie theater you can talk about the movie over a drink or coffee. There are ways around it. If someone loves you sometimes they prefer shy people instead of too confident a person and feel safer and more relaxed around them. Not all men/women like gabby or aggressive men/women, so just be yourself and probably what you may think is your worst feature (being shy) is endearing to them. My husband was painfully shy when I first met him, so much so, I had to go out on a date with two of his other best friends dragging along, but we had fun and I just let this arrangement be until my husband got use to me. It didn't take long and nature kicked in after that. Good luck Marcy Why not?I think it's definitely possible because when you feel intense love for somebody and they feel the same intense connection back than when the two of you get together there will be supernatural feelings..What I mean is you might get intimidated by them because these feelings will be new to you or vice versa.In another words they might leave you speechless or breathless.-DeMirci

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