Can you make your cervix dilate with your finger?

Answer 1

The answer to this question is somewhat complicated. Firstly some advice. Introducing anything into the cervix can possibly result in infection, a highly undesirable outcome. Should you decide to proceed despite this risk, it is strongly advised that anything you introduce to your cervix be squeaky clean.

Most women would find attempting what you are suggesting to be extremely uncomfortable, if not overly painful. At the very least, a great deal of time and patience would be required, as most women can not just force an object of that size into their cervix. Of the people that have discussed succeeding, most if not all have mentioned that they have had one or more vaginal childbirth.

Either way, if you truly are interested in pursuing this, a finger is probably not the most ideal penetration to start off with (fingers tend to carry a lot of bacteria, and that fingernail of yours is not going to be overly comfortable). Extremely small (and clean) vibrators or other smooth, thin devices can do the trick. For people who are very serious about pursuing this sort of "cervix play", and do not have an overly accepting cervix, metal cervix dilators (similar to what doctors use, these can be found online), can be used in increasing diameter to gradually open the opening of the cervix to the point where other larger items (such as a finger) can be more easily inserted (the metal is easier to clean, never use glass as that can shatter). In two very unusual cases, I was informed that one woman was able to insert a small egg vibrator after 3 hours of gradual dilation and another woman (who had a prolapsed uterus) was actually able to experience and apparently enjoy cervix sex. In the case of the egg vibrator, the woman had to start if off slow, and if not enjoying sexual stimulation while using it, actually found it rather uncomfortable, though with sex, it was apparently very enjoyable.

Either way, expect cramping if you rush things along to rapidly, though again this may be different for each person.

Again, one last warning, foreign objects can carry bacteria, and these can result in a very nasty infection. If you proceed and end up with any symptoms beyond cramps for a short period of time, you should check in with your doctor to make sure nothing serious is going on.