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  • Your husband betrayed the bond of trust you had in him and hurt you deeply and now he is going to have to earn that trust back only if you want to stay with him and save the marriage. If your husband has cheated on more than one occasion then he is not worth trusting at all, but 'to err is human' and sometimes men from 40 years and up can feel they are getting old and want to recapture their youth or, they are so taken in by another woman being attracted to them. Remind your husband that if you decide on divorce unless he seeks marriage counseling with you and works at earning your trust back you are well aware other men would be attracted to you because often some men who cheat are so into themselves they forget that their wives can attract other men too. However, do it the right way and don't cheat to get even. If you feel you can never trust him again or he has cheated multiple times and you want a divorce then file for one.
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