Could your fiance be cheating if you have been with him for seven years and now he makes constant comments about your weight and he does not care about sex?

Answer 1

Just because he is making comments about your weight doesn't mean he's cheating on you. Obviously he's not too discreet about telling you what he thinks about your weight and isn't considering your feelings. If he fears you are getting too heavy for your health then he could have said it in a kinder manner, but because he is constantly at you this guy goes for appearances. It could be an early warning of cheating. 7 years is too long to be engaged and some men are turned off of over-weight women while other men can be turned on by them. The thing that makes me laugh the most is the people that condemn other people for either being too thin or fat, etc., are the ones that should be taking a good hard look at themselves in the mirror! No one has the right to keep making constant comments about their partner's weight. If he really cared he could say he'd help you and the two of you could start jogging together, biking or working out at a gym. The fact he's hurting you is a red flag that this guy needs a good swift kick in the butt! Whether women are slim, too thin, fat or heavy-set they should make an effort to eat smart, do some type of exercising (even just fast walking with a friend) and keeping their appearances up within reason. Too many women out there seem to be letting themselves go. No one has to be a #10, but if we, as women don't strive to be the best we can be with what we have then we are letting ourselves down and no one else. You need to have some quiet time to reflect on who you used to be. Many people can lose or gain weight if they are really unhappy. I would say being engaged for 7 years is enough to make any young woman unhappy and I'm sure there are other problems in your relationship and it's bothering you. If you feel you are over-weight, then go to Weight Watcher's where you will learn to eat healthy while staying happy on what you eat, drink 8 glasses of water a day (flushes out toxins and fats in the body) and exercise (fast walking, swimming or biking is good.) DO IT FOR YOURSELF! You'll probably find once you start doing this your fiance may not look too good to you! This is a time to tell him to "poop or get off the pot re marriage!" Be independent and NEVER let anyone control your life!