While Odysseus was gone, his wife Penelope was being forced to entertain a large group of suitors who wanted to marry her. Penelope did not like any of the suitors, and only wanted Odysseus to come home to her.
Penelope did not like any of the suitors
It was Penelope
Antinous blames Penelope for stringing the suitors along and not committing to marry any of them.
Antinous is the leader of the suitors of Penelope, as he is the richest, and the most outspoken. Eurymachus is the next most reknowned of the suitors, and is well known for his command of the language.
Wife
Not at all. The suitors were guests of Penelope, not hosts.
She does not see any, she wants Odysseus to come home.
The suitors wan't Penelope to marry them and they will play games to win her over such as: darts, fights, last longest under water, etc.
Wait for her to finish weaving
You may want to rephrase the question, because it is clear she knew the suitors were after her.
During the slaughter of the suitors in the Odyssey, Penelope is kept in her chambers away from the violence. She is not aware of what is happening until after the event has concluded.
Penelope told the suitors that she would weave a tapestry, and once she was finished, she would marry one of the suitors. Penelope weaved during the day, but secretly undid her work at night.