Do guys go for easy girls over the girls they really like because they are afraid of getting hurt?

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Here are some answers from WikiAnswers contributors: - The answer to this question is very debatable, and the answer can definitely change in different cases. However, the main reason that guys like easy girls is because guys like sex. If they think they can sleep with an easy girl faster than the girl they really like, they might want to choose the easy girl. This is not always true, but it is very common. This, however, does not mean that guys don't go for the girls they really like. Guys do try for the girls they really like, but sometimes they allow their primitive drive for sex to interfere with their less instinct driven, but more civilized drive for true love and companionship. - Well the scenario is not always of easy sex. A lot of times it all depends on the time as well. The amount of time the guy is looking to invest in the girl, as lot of girls are very indirect and not sure of what they want from the guy. This makes the guy keep wondering for months and years about what is in her mind Then finally the girl says, "No, it won't work". There is a tedious and big time concentration that is required to keep manipulating whats going on in girls mind and the guys which are highly ambitious in there career goals may find it hard to look at this aspect of life. If they come across an easy girl they may opt for her. Now here easy does not mean she is easy with all, it may be something like she might have observed you for long or rather than only the fact that she may seem easy to you. But on the other hand, same girl may be tough ice to break for other guys. .I hope this makes the picture clearer. In conclusion guys go for easy girls because they take less time than the girls they really like - Some men go for easy girls because: they are lazy and don't have to work at a relationship, or they want to have sex! Men will go for a girl no matter who she is, what she looks like, or if she's nice as long as they can get an easy roll in the hay. - Since the 60's popular belief about sex was "sex and rock and roll" and some people think it's cool. I believe it's not! Along with this belief came AIDS, and other diseases called "the kiss of death." No matter what the generation, most men do not respect women who will hit the sack on a moments notice. However, the select few that do respect it will brag to their buddies about it and in turn, the poor girl gets one bad reputation and is left wondering why she is shunned or called names behind her back. Think of this, if a guy has an "easy lay" as they so politely put it (that phrase never changes from generation to generation) people will eventually call the girl a "pig" or a "ho." Then what does that make the guy? I'd say lower than a snake's belly! - If a girl cares about herself she should be independent and yes, even fussy who she dates and who she goes to bed with. Sex should be earned, and not considered the sport of this generation. Nothing changes from generation to generation really, young girls still get pregnant when they aren't married. Many of the father's of these babies run for the hills. Most of these girls are left alone and afraid or shipped off to an aunt or uncles until the baby is born. Either that or she keeps the baby, and finds it very difficult because the jerk who got her pregnant in the first place won't pay child support. - Guys go for 'easy' girls for exactly the reason that you think they do, easy sex. It has nothing at all to do with a fear of being hurt by a girl that they really like. - Men do this because they feel that the person that they really like may not have a interest in them. So they look for the more easier targets, such as easy girls. - Well, I've heard they go for girls they don't like so they don't get hurt or because they want to make the girl they like jealous.

- Guys go for girls whom they like and believe to be attainable. Girls who demonstrate that they have control over their identity and sexual behavior are likely to be good matches for guys who feel the same, whereas girls who are shy and terrified of sex do well with guys who are the same.

Here is some philosophical advice on the topic - You can lose your virginity, lose your looks, lose your health, but if you lose your reputation, you have lost everything.