If they can't afford it, girl, chances are, they are not worth it.
Generally it's the Bride's parents that pay for the Engagement Dinner, but with so many divorces if the Bride only has one parent they may not be able to afford to pay the full amount or any amount so it's just fine if the Groom's parents decide to pay and also acceptable if relatives or friends have the Engagement Dinner. The dinner doesn't have to be splashy and keep it small .... Bride and Groom to be, the wedding party; their parent(s), perhaps a grandmother/grandfather and some friends.
The grooms parents pay for the rehersal dinner and all expenses associated with it.
The wedding to do list for groom's parents include hosting the engagement party. They provide the couple with a list of guests and host the rehearsal dinner on the evening before the wedding. They may also contribute to some of the wedding expenses.
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what does the groom parents pay for at a traditional wedding
Well the person who asked then to come to dinner, Eg. The girfriends parents ask the boyfriends parents out for dinner they should pay unless they decide to spilt the cost.
Traditionally the Groom's parents host the rehearsal dinner. However, nobody is "responsible" for paying anything they don't agree to pay. The couple should expect to have to pay for everything themselves, and if it works out that someone else volunteers to cover it, then great.
It does not matter who pays for the wedding decorations now days. Back in the day it was the parents of the bride who paid for most of the stuff besides the rehearsal dinner that was paid by the grooms family.
All families are different. Sometimes, but groom's parents pay for other things.
Pay 1/2 If you are going the traditional stream of thought, here is the usual breakdown: * the engagement party. * * invitations, engagement and wedding announcements, enclosures, personal stationery, newsletters, postage, wedding programs, and thank you notes. * * brides wedding down, shoes, accessories, and honeymoon wardrobe. * * formal wear for the bride's parents. * * bridesmaids and flower girls dresses, shoes, and accessories. * * bridesmaids tee, luncheon, or dinner. * * groom's engagement ring [if he's wearing one] and wedding ring. * * bridal consultants fees. * * ceremony and reception decorations and flowers. * * bouquets and corsages for bridesmaids and flower girls. * * fee for ceremony space, Sexton, organist or other musician, rental of aisle carpet, canopy, huppah, and any other necessary ceremonial items. * * reception: all professional services providers, including the caterer, bartender, and musicians or DJ. * * engagement and wedding photos, and wedding video. * * transportation for the bridal attendants and bride's family to and from the ceremony and reception. * * bride's gifts to bridesmaids and flower girl, and bride's gift to her groom. I will post a link to a budget planner so that you can get some more information.
The groom's parents usually pay for the rehearsal dinner, which is their gift to the couple. Another small gift to the couple can be given. If the mother wishes to give a small gift to her son of some type, this is perfectly acceptable, although she should also give a small gift to her daughter-in-law as well. If the parents did not pay for a rehearsal dinner, then the value of the couple's gift should be a bit higher.
It all depends on how set up the wedding and who agrees to pay for what. Traditionally, the groom's family pays for the rehearsal dinner for the members of the bridal party. They may sometimes pay for the tux's. Other than that the bride's parents pay for everything else. Some bridge and groom's pay for the wedding themselves and their parents don't pay anything.
There are no particular rules regarding this, despite the list in the wedding books. You should discuss costs of the wedding with your intended.Where as it is tradition of the brides parents to pay for the entire wedding (this includes wedding flowers) the grooms parents may offer to pay for something such as wedding flowers. It may seem rude to reject such a generous gift. With that said, there is no obligation for the grooms parents to pay for anything.AnswerIf either set of parents wishes to pay for any portion of wedding expenses, they will offer it to the couple. Unless/until that happens, the couple is on their own.