Do things happen for a reason?

Answer 1

yes, i think they do.

Why did my grandad pass away i think it was my fault i knew i shouldn't have left him, i just wish he was here still i wish i could die and he could come back.....I still remember walking back into our house my dad said to my dog [becuz she loved my grandad] Hes not coming back Tash n i bursted to tears my like is ruined without him.......Why him???? I cant stand xmas or birthdays without him :'(

-Psychopomp66-

I don't beleave everything happens for a reason, well...i guess in a way it does but people say that it does when they comfort people but really its not supposed to be a comfort statement or w.e you would like to call it.

like when you tell someone who was dumped that this happend for a reason, meaning that it could have NOT been prevented but that's not true at all i absolutly do not beleave that you could have not change what had happend for instance you get dumped cuz u cheated in a relationship that is happening because YOU made a choice that had the result of this, it could have been changed by not doing it, but why did you? you don't realize it until it actually happens? like its mind blowing if you think about it.

I mean sure when a relative pass's away this happens for a reason, old age, its not preventable it will happen and its a sad thing we all know that. but like i unno everything that happens does not always happen for a reason like im repeating myself but god i hope you get where im going with this like imagine your in the front line of a battle

your run in

you get shot and fall to the ground and suddenly your sight goes black and you go cold

so is this happening for a reason as in it was not preventable? NO you made the choice and now u are getting the result this is happening because YOU made it happen this is happening because YOU made it happen

well i guess what im saying is

things happen for a reason

but the reason is not always just cuz it does happen its cuz you make it happen and blame something else for it

(sorry if this doesent make sence but i think it does)

Answer 2

Yes. you see, sometimes God allows things to happen to you that may seem horrible at the time, but later, you figure out it was for the best. Then you'll be happy you went through that, because it can take you to amazing places in your life! God knows what he's doing, and YES, EVERYTHING happens for a reason! A good one! ;)