If this is a get-acquainted tea for the women of both families, no. Unless the Matriarch of the groom's family wishes to give to the bride-to-be a token of welcome, which should be done in an aside or private moment.
No, dates do not have to give a gift to the wedding couple. Your date does.
If this is a get-acquainted tea for the women of both families, no. Unless the Matriarch of the groom's family wishes to give to the bride-to-be a token of welcome, which should be done in an aside or private moment.
No. The same applies if you had a gift sent directly to them through a store. But if you feel you should bring something, a wedding card is always nice. And if you want to be sure they know about the donation (or to expect the gift), you can include a message about it in the card. Or you could take a bottle of Champagne etc., which is always a good gift for celebrating events.
If the luncheon is a special event such as a luncheon before a wedding then yes, bring a gift. If it is just an informal luncheon with either friends (no special reason) or business you do not need to bring a gift.
Bring a card or small token gift.
Only if your guest paid something toward the gift. Otherwise no.
* The best thing to do when someone does not buy a wedding gift for your son or daughter's wedding is to ignore it. Some of these guests may well give a wedding gift later and those that don't then they have no etiquette and just remember that when it's their turn if one of their children gets married. It's not worth the energy to bring it up and is not proper etiquette to do so.
yes why not.a gift or a card with flowers it very sweet and nice.A bit more:While it would be ok to bring a gift card to a wedding reception, I wouldn't advise bringing flowers. To bring flowers as a gift to a wedding would be pretty awkward for the wedding couple to have to keep up with, find a place to put them where they won't be in the way or clash with her wedding/reception decorations.With flowers, they would have to find someone willing to take them home for them after the wedding/reception and, considering most couples leave for their honeymoon right after the wedding, the flowers would be wilted or dead by the time the newlyweds returned.But what you can do is to have flowers delivered to them after they return from their honeymoon.
* It doesn't matter if a person gets married two or eight times, it is etiquette to bring a wedding gift which is usually left at the reception on a special table for gifts. If there is just the wedding and no reception or it's a reception at someone's home then leave the gift there for the couple.
It is customary to purchase a shower gift if you are planning on attending it, or if the person purchased you one for your shower. As far as a wedding gift goes, if you plan on attending, plan on purchasing a gift. If you don't plan on attending it is completely up to you whether you purchase a gift or not. A card of congratulations, regardless of whether or not you purchase them a gift, is always welcome and a sign of good manners.
* If you know the bride and groom to be then yes you should, but if you don't know them then it's up to your date to provide the gift.
Etiquette states that you have up to a year after the wedding to get someone a wedding gift.