Does a guy like you if he always has long conversations with other women but hardly speaks to you yet he stares at you a lot?

Answer 1

You have to ask yourself how easy you have made it for him to approach you to start talking. It's obvious he may want to talk with you. If you have been cool towards him or ignored him then you could have scared him away. If you've always talked and suddenly he quit talking then YOU go up to him and start a conversation. Perhaps he is having personal problems, studying too hard, etc. The only way you can find out is through communication. If you really like him then be warm, understanding and make it a little easier for him to talk with you. Still, if he's shy or a private person you still may not get much out of him. Friends are friends no matter what so take it slow and easy and go talk with him (start out with small talk) and go from there. Good luck Marcy

Answer 2

Him staring at you simply means that he is physically attracted to you. That isn't as important as you may think; it usually only confuses things. The girls who he is really interested in as people are the girls who he talks to a lot. This isn't the guy you're looking for; don't waste your time with him. Even if he is willing to date you, he will most likely date you for your looks. And just asking him if this is the case isn't going to solve the problem. Don't waste your time. You'll just get hurt in the end. Well I've assumed through all of that that you have really tried to talk to him, but I just now thought of another possibility. Have you tried talking to him at all? Maybe he just feels like he just doesn't know you well enough to call you and start a conversation. If this is the case, then just go ahead and make the first move; call him. It seems that he is already physically attracted to you, which will give you a huge head start if he is like most guys. Don't be nervous; if you don't make any attempt to become better friends with him, then you definitely won't become better friends with him; trying and failing is much, much better than not trying at all, especially when you have such a good chance of not failing. -DJ Craig