Does he really love his wife if he cant stop cheating on her and treating her badly calling her names etc?

Answer 1

With love, comes respect. You cant possibly love somebody and continue to disrespect them. Its possible the man feels he can eat his cake and have it.! Any cheating man or woman is extremely disrespectful. No woman should subject herself to any kind of abuse..verbal, emotional or physical. Being submissive in a marriage does not equal to being a doormat!. Any woman in this situation MUST get help fast, you may have lost your self confidence, self esteem and value in this process and literally assume its ok or mormal to be treated this way..its not...get help fast from trusted relatives, friends, counselors or a religious leader. If the man thinks you cant live without him, he would continue to disrespect you. You need to acquire some boldness and refuse to be a doormat. Its his choice to be irresponsible, not yours..no matter what he says. Move away from him, so you can think things through. Pray for him, if you're a believer. Never be tempted to revenge or think cheating on him too will make you feel better, it will only make you feel worse. Forgiving somebody does not mean you have to continue to take their crap. You should not take responsibility for anybody's foolishness. Take time out, to rediscover yourself. If he's always cheating, and regularly abusive..then he is not your husband...he's a dog. You deserve better. GET HELP!