It's not exactly bad... However, I find a lot of times when a guy's friend or friends tell me that he likes me, I don't believe them. Many times people mess around like that, so it's definitely better to tell him yourself. Even if you have to text it or IM it would work a lot better than having your friends do it. It's kind of a turn-off when you do that as well, cause it shows that you don't have enough confidence to tell him yourself.
I didn't handle it the best way but I texted the guy and said hey. When he said hey back I asked him if he wanted to hear something cool.... when he said sure I just said that I liked him. Maybe it wasn't the best way, but it's better than having your friends do it, TRUST ME! :) Good Luck.
Not all of the time. Sometimes your friends might exaggerate the truth and turn your crush off. Your crush might not like the fact that you are too shy to tell them your own feelings personally.
yes and no.
first of all they might tell him, but that could be exactly what you want
also they could tell you if he likes you
it depends on if you trust his friends
You are better off telling him yourself; it looks a lot nicer than getting your friends to do the job for you. It also shows him you are serious enough to talk to him persoanlly.
You can tell his friends you need to talk to him and then tell him staight in his face that you like him. But if telling the friends that you need to talk to him doesn't work then him you need to talk to him or you will tell oon him onwhat he did but if he didn't do nothing just make something reasonable up.
That's the problem with using messengers. On one hand you would think that if he wants to know if you like him, he must like you back. But it might just means that he enjoys being liked and does not like you back. Time you should work up the courage to ask for a one-on-one and ask if he was told that you liked him. That should break the ice. Whatever you do though, don't deny your feelings. If he mocks them, then why would you want him anyway, right?
Think about any qualities that you share with your friend and embrace them. If your friend doesn't like your crush don't say that to your crush but tell people who you know will tell your crush. If that doesn't work than just wait. But don't forget that there are a lot of other people out there
date the girl you like most tell the girl ur dating that its not gonna work out and then if you want to ask her friend to say it instead of you
not really just tell them that you have alot of work to do and tell them that they wouldn't like it or something
just tell them that you have a crush on the person to and you can work something out together
start out just being friends then work your way up.
OK I'm kind of in the same place as you. Right now just try to be friends with him, or try talking to him at lunch. Also if that doesn't work, just try to be friends with his bffs. Once you become friends with his bffs then, try asking his bffs about him or talk about something that he might like to bring up the topic. Remember always smile and laugh with your friends about something really funny and then he might ant to join you! Good Luck!
tell a friend to tell them you like them Well, even if your shy, having a friend tell them how you feel is not the best idea. I've once been rejected myself trying to have a friend do the dirty work. Your crush would most likely think "if they really care about me they can tell me themself" Its not that hard to confess yourself though. All you need to do is stick your chin out there and hope for the best. No one would wanna just say "No, get away from me" and its not like they will crush your heart. But if you just want them to notice you, just try to become friends with them and give them little hints as you go. Trust me on this, I've been through it. ^^
Why does he have to be away from his friends? Leave him alone and let him have some freedom, or this thing isn't going to work.
Bring up your crush in conversation. Start talking about someone your think also likes him/her. Then say "you remember when I said that --- likes that guy/girl? I like them too" it should work.
Tell it to him straight... just be like "Hey Were just friends" If that doesnt work... ignore him and if that doesnt work... well, idk then