During the affair how can you tell if your husband wanted to be with his mistress instead of staying home with you?

  • If your husband wanted to be with his mistress instead of you he would either make excuses not to come home (working late; meeting a client, etc.) or, he'd make an excuse such as going out with his male friends so he can meet his mistress. Sometimes the mistress may phone to set up a time to meet him either on his cell or sometimes the home phone and if you pick up and no one is there you can bet it is her.