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Explain why abused kids might still seek out approval or love of their abuser.?
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Will my boyfriend be an abuser if he yells at his mom?
Answer:The Boyfriend might become an abuser, but in the long run he will learn from his mistakes and i believe no, he will not become an abuser, if you feel like your being abused walk away =3
Why do people stay in abusive relationship?
Several different reasons. One could be because the abuser has such a hold on the abused that they stay because they think that the abuser is the only person that will want them. There is also fear that if the abused left the abuser would hunt them down and make them pay for leaving in the first place. If you asked 10 different abused people why they stay (stayed) in they're abusive relationships I can almost promise you'll get 10 different answers. In some cases the abused person believes that she/he can fix the abuser, or for complex reasons might even feel guilt about leaving the abuser.
How do you reason with an abuser?
Reasoning with an abuser is not something the abused person should probably try. Most abusers are very good at manipulation. If you try to discuss it with them, you may be disappointed and become more hurt and angry. If they are an abuser, they already know it, but do not expect them to admit it.Rather then reason with them, you should talk to someone that you trust about it. It might be hard to admit to someone that you are being abused, but it is better to face your fear by reaching out to someone then continuing to be abused.
Are abused animals more aggressive?
It depends,... if they get abused and are scared if the abuser then they might be less aggressive But if they dislike the owner or person who abuses them then more likely they'll think badly about all people and be more aggressive
What factors might play a role in the partner's decision to stay when abused?
They could have been depending on the abuser for financial support. They might have children together or own property together. Their family might have left them to fend for themselves. p
Is it normal for someone who has been abused to be obsessively reading books on abusive men or looking at abuse websites trying to find that one thing that will put the abuser in his place?
It might be necessary to get the person in for therapy. If nothing else, the therapist might be able to get the abused person to leave the abusive relationship and be a little less obsessive.
Do you tell an abuser that he emotionally abused you?
Telling an abuser that he emotionally abused you depends on your expectations. Safety is the most important consideration, though- do not put yourself in a position of further abuse- emotional or physical- by confronting your abuser. If by telling him, you are expecting him to apologize or take responsibility for his behavior, you are very unlikely to be satisfied. Abusers are in denial, and they rarely will admit that their behavior is abusive or in any way wrong. The chances of an abusive man changing are very slim, so telling him hoping he will change is rather useless. If by telling him, you are standing up to your abuser, regaining control of your own life, and letting him know what he did to you and how it affected you, it might be worth telling him for your own recovery.
Are you in danger of being abused by your boyfriend when he regularly accuses you of talking to other men and gets angry when you go out with friends?
I'm warning you, he might be an abuser. If he hurts you, you need to get out of that relationship ASAP. If he won't leave you alone, you can file a restraining order.
What if your friend doesn't want you to help her stop getting abused?
A person getting abused is not themselves. She is probably terrified of her abuser. The abuser would have threatened her not to tell somebody or they will hurt her and she is too afraid to take that risk. If you feel your friend is not in immediate danger then keep trying to convince her that she should do something like telling someone or going to the police and that you are there for her. You should ask and adult for assistance in the meantime. If she is in danger YOU have to do something, tell an adult you know you can trust to help you and her. She might not be happy but she will eventually know that you were looking out for her.
How do you convince your non-abusive parent to see an abuse therapist with you?
You would first need to get them to understand that they are a victim too. They may assume that because they are not the abuser, that they don't need therapy. Also, they might not be aware as to how the abuse is affecting their child, or they might fear that they are playing a role in the abuse, and they don't want to be told they are contributing to you being abused.
Is soulji boi a child abuser?
soulji boi might be one well that i heard so it might be true
I have just adopted a dog and when i were playing with him and he coward in fear does this mean he could have been abused?
He Might Have Been Abused, But He Might Also Not Be Used To Being Played With.
