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How do I cope with this?

Updated: 12/22/2022

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month and during that time, we got so close. We’ve been so happy. One night we were talking about normal stuff and then he said “babe is it okay if we take a break?” My world was crushed. He told me he’s been overwhelmed with rent, work, college, his car, etc. he said it wasn’t my fault and he still has feelings for me and loves me. This was a few days ago. The first couple of days, we joked around sometimes. Today we didn’t talk at all. I told him at the beginning I’d support him and I want to be there for him, but I don’t wanna bother him either. I cry myself to sleep every night because I miss him and how things were. I’ve been under constant anxiety, worrying he lost feelings or he’ll never come back. If it makes a difference, I’m 18 and he’s 19. How do I cope with this?

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Happyhippo123

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3y ago

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I had this happen to me as well, you and him should not be together right now. He is not ready to be in a committed relationship with someone else because he has his own problems to deal with, I understand that you both love each other but speaking from experience the outcome will not be pleasant. In the end you will only feel as if you you were not good enough. My suggestion is to split up, maybe you can both work on yourselves and reconnect but for now going your seperate ways is for the best.

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Jossyj35

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