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How can I get my wife to forgive me for an affair she found out after it ended and I really love and don't want to lose her?
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∙ 14y ago
- Humans are not perfect and they can make mistakes and in the case of your affair which did end you hopefully learned from your mistake. Unfortunately, when you chose to have an affair you were irresponsible; hurt your wife and you were not honest enough to tell her about it yourself and she had to find out the hard way. You broke that bond of trust that comes with loving someone. Hopefully, good communication skills between you and your wife and perhaps marriage counseling will let you earn her trust back (which may takes months or even a year or more) and then the trust is earned back. Just be patient with your wife. Spend time on the weekends with her and if possible, take her out for dinner (does not have to be at an expensive restaurant) buy her flowers once a month (even one single rose with a bow on it) and to get her mind off the hurt (and if you can afford it) plan a romantic vacation somewhere even if it is just a few hundred miles from home. Bed/Breakfast places by the ocean; lake or just looking at mountains can be a romantic place to mend fences.
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∙ 14y ago
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∙ 14y agoBuddy deep down in your heart is what your going to have to bring out to her. You must show her why you guys were together though your trust from her has probably been lost. It's very difficult to have a partner you thought you could trust then they just break you into two. Your wife is broken by the fact that not even she your could satisfiy you that you had to cheat or how you said you loved her but you cheat and that just shows her different? But you gota go show how much you love her of course. Love takes sacrafices.
You do have to give her time to cool off though but if you take to long to get back at her then she'll began to think you don't care. Alot of women are diffrent some will easily get back. Some will make you chase them more to prove how much you really want them a prove how much you love them. So if you want your wife back do what you got to do.
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∙ 8y agoShe's ignoring you for a punishment, a lot of wives do that. Pray for God to forgive you, and remember: God can hear you, and he is real.
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How do you forgive a spouse who will not admit to any wrong when they carried on a secret relationship for two years and you found out by looking at cellphone and emails Friends say it was an affair?
It is possible to forgive someone of a wrong they refuse to admit to because forgiveness is something that happens within yourself. How? By simply letting the issue go. You could say (whether to him or just to yourself), "I forgive you for cheating on me. I forgive you for keeping it a secret. I forgive you for denying your wrongdoing. I forgive you and I will not hold it against you any longer." Then move on. True forgiveness brings freedom and rest to the forgiver, regardless of how the forgiven one reacts.
Can your marriage work if in your 18 year marriage you just found out that your husband has been in a 4 year affair and has a child with her?
It depends. Do you still love him. If you do, forgive him and move on. But make sure he stays away from that other woman. Good Luck.
What is the mesage of the two accounts of creation found in the book of genesis?
the message is that god wanted to forgive everyone's sins and to forgive all..................... waseem<3
How often does a wife think about her husbands affair and what reminds her of it?
My father had an affair, and my mother found out, and no matter what an argument was about, my mother threw the affair in his face, every time, for the next 50 years. So the answer is ALWAYS and ANYTHING.
Why does the ex contact you after an affair?
she realised that you are better and good when she was with the other man. ANSWER: Because he or she found out that the grass is not greener on the other side. Now what you need to do is let him or her go before things really turn bad for you..
Are secret affairs good things?
i dont think secret affairs are good because it can cause heartbreak and if someone found out, they could take it really seriously and harm, or even kill you... if you have children and have an affair, they could find out and tell others. it puts them under alot of pressure and sadness so think about what your doing and your kids (if you have any). i suggest, if you want to have an affair you should tell your partner you want to leave them first so they wouldnt be as upset if they found out you are having an affair with someone else. hope this helps.
Who played latch key kid on family affair Her name on the show was Lana?
Susan Benjamin Neher (a simple google of "family affair + Lana + imdb" found the answer)
Was president Reagan found guilty of committing any crime during the Iran-contra affair?
no
How do you know if your boyfriend still love you after he cheated n you forgive him?
You should have known that he didn't love you when you found out that he cheated on you.
What would Michelle do to Barack if she found out he was cheating on her?
he's not cheating on her, but if he was she'd probably forgive him as long as he doesn't do it again.
When Ferdinand Magellan discovered the spice islands?
he ended up dieing but his crew members had found as much spices as they could but guess what they pocket jacked them they stole and took off in Magellan's ship sincerely copy cat
Should you believe your boyfriend if you found out from your cousin that he cheated on you but he told you she meant nothing and he really loves and cares for you?
If he really loved you then why did he cheat in the first place, especially if "she meant nothing" to him. You have to ask yourself if you will be able to forgive him and move on or will it always be in the back of your mind torturing you. If you can't let go and trust him then the relationship is doomed.
