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You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
If it is yes most definately.
That's his responsibility. If he is still seeing her, the affair is not over. You can't control your husband. A spouse has the right to the respect, loyalty and faithfulness of their partner. If your husband can't control his behavior then you need to assess your status as his wife and whether you want your present situation to continue. Are you better off with him or without him?
It is much better if the husband admits to his affair because it shows he has remorse and humans make mistakes, but when a husband has the intestinal fortitude to admit he was wrong in what he did then he is ready to try and make the marriage work. A husband who has to be caught in an affair may even become angry over the fact his wife found out and he is neither remorseful and basically selfish not considering the hurt he is inflicting on his wife and family.
Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.
If your husband admitted to his affair then he is trying and simply made a mistake, but if you caught him in the affair and threatened to leave him then he may well feel trapped and men are not noted for knowing what to do when it comes to relationships of any sort, but women are far more tuned in. Your husband may feel he is trapped and is getting back at you by not having a sexual relationship with you or he feels too much guilt. Some men on a general basis (right or wrong) do not always like the women taking control of this sort of situation. Start communicating! If you have children then send them to the grandparents or a friends over-night and sit down with your husband and discuss your marriage. No matter how angry or hurt you may feel keep calm because if you start arguing the conversation is over. Simply ask him for the truth which is whether he truly loves the woman he had the affair with or does he love you. Then go from there. You are in complete control of your own destiny and depending on what your husband says you will either get help from a marriage counselor or, if he is still in love with his mistress or not happy in the marriage for other reasons then you can tell him you are going to either get a separation or start divorce proceedings.
u can over come anything if u put your mind to it :)
ANSWER:Does it? actually it will stop in time. But once in a while some flashback will hit you like a brick wall and once again it will be pain in your heart. If you still having problem how to forget your husband's affair, give yourself time. Remember time will help you ease the pain each time.
For those people that was hurt and betrayed by our spouse, we will never get over the pain of their affair but it will ease up slowly and surely. Time will be our weapon and it will help us to understand, all we need is never loose our faith.
You don't, especially your trust. no one can get over the affect of your husband or your wife infidelity. It will take time to heal and after you accept the hurt, sometimes a "flashback" will occur no matter if you want it or not. Give your self time and space, and if it will help every time you think that the pain of the affair is coming back, write your thought, write how you feel, write the things that really hurt you from the affair. If you can do this, that will be one of the sign that your healing yourself.
you can actually sue him and the chick he's affair with. Also I don't suggest a divorce. You promised to God that you are married with ONE person and I suggest going to marriage counselor before and start over and hopefully your husband wont go back to his ways and see you as the good woman you truly are.
"Out, out, damned spot" is a line spoken by Lady Macbeth in Shakespeare's play Macbeth. She is referring to a imaginary bloodstain on her hands, symbolizing her guilt over the crimes she and her husband have committed. The phrase conveys her desperate attempts to rid herself of her guilt and the consequences of their actions.