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Does your husband expect his wife to just forgive and forget that she caught him in a 3 year affair when he tells her to either get over it or get on?
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∙ 14y ago
Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.
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Husband admits to cheating?
I think that is the right move, but my question is, did you caught his affair or he came forward and tell you about it. Now the limbo will start, all the question will come out from you. You will have this betrayal and trust issue with your husband. One thing though, do not let your husband tell you " it just happen" or I'm sorry I didn't mean to do it." This are what most married men will say when they get caught. If you think about it, he is not a tiny sorry for having an affair nor it just happen, because he did planned what he did.This will be up to you, either you want to forgive him and he might do it again, or move on without him in your life. It's not hard being a divorce, I did it because the man I married had affair to...
How do you tell your husband girlfriend's employer about their affair?
You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
What do you say to the person your husband is having an emotional affair with?
Take what you said to your husband (because, you know, he's not without blame for this, either), and modify it as you see fit.
Should your wife still be in contact with him?
Gosh no, how can she justify the pain that she gave to her husband if she still contact him. If this is what she is doing, for God sake just get a divorce so both can move on. Just like when the husband is the one that had the affair, if he keeps contact with his mistress what do you think the wife will feel? Either way husband or wife that has the affair needs to be honest, and never contact the affair partner..
What do you do about a cheating wife?
You either forgive her or leave her.
How do you deal with the fact your husband has cheated and created a child outside of marriage?
Far better your question should read "How do you deal with the fact your husband cheated and created a child by another woman? Each person (Wife) will deal with this kind of situation in their own way. The shock will either break up her relationship with her husband, or she will forgive him if she has played a part in the circumstances leading up to his infidelity i.e not being able to satisfy his needs. There are two problems here, your own and that of the other woman and her child. Do you forgive your husband and try and solve your differences, obviously there are some. And what about the child, does the other woman want it, if not would you consider taking the child into your own family, after all your husband is the father. Do you have children of your own, what will become of them if you and your husband separate. It will take time to completely forgive your husband if you ever can. I cannot give you a satisfactory answer as there is to much at stake, but I would suggest that you try and forgive your husband and keep your family or your relationship together if you love him. Meet with the other woman and try and come to an agreeable solution regarding the child.
What can I do when if your spouse hasn't touch you after his affair?
If your husband admitted to his affair then he is trying and simply made a mistake, but if you caught him in the affair and threatened to leave him then he may well feel trapped and men are not noted for knowing what to do when it comes to relationships of any sort, but women are far more tuned in. Your husband may feel he is trapped and is getting back at you by not having a sexual relationship with you or he feels too much guilt. Some men on a general basis (right or wrong) do not always like the women taking control of this sort of situation. Start communicating! If you have children then send them to the grandparents or a friends over-night and sit down with your husband and discuss your marriage. No matter how angry or hurt you may feel keep calm because if you start arguing the conversation is over. Simply ask him for the truth which is whether he truly loves the woman he had the affair with or does he love you. Then go from there. You are in complete control of your own destiny and depending on what your husband says you will either get help from a marriage counselor or, if he is still in love with his mistress or not happy in the marriage for other reasons then you can tell him you are going to either get a separation or start divorce proceedings.
Who needs to mend your broken heart after discovering your husband's affair?
Time mends a broken heart when a wife is broken hearted over her husband's affair. It is a grieving process much like losing a loved one to death. Once the husband cheats he has broken that bond of trust with his wife which is devastating to her and it will take time for him to earn her trust back. The wife must go down her own road of life alone to decide what she wants from her husband; how to handle the situation after the affair and if she wants to remain in the marriage or seek out marriage counseling. If the wife feels by cheating on her husband she will either get even with him or mend her broken heart it will not and proves nothing leaving her feeling used and guilty for lowering herself to her husband's level.
Should you accept husband and mistress' child?
If your husband has broken off the affair with the mistress then your husband should do the right thing and pay child support, but that does not mean you have to accept the child into the family. If the mistress does not want the child then it is up to you whether you want to help to raise that child. If your husband is still seeing his mistress then pack his bags and kick him out and either file for a separation or divorce.
Is your marriage worth saving when husband will not tell you about his affair even though you have evidence of a two year affair Told you to just get over it and move on?
I think you should be patient and take your time steadily with him. He wil eventually let out on you. If not i guess hes either not trusting you. Or doesnt feel like talking about it
Is clams only be in salt water my husband went fishing in Glasgow KY and on his hook caught a clam?
Clams can be either fresh water or salt water. (Depends on the species)
Husband cheated on me and they are still friends?
You can't work on the issues in your marriage with your husband until he's a full partner in the marriage again. This is impossible unless he ends the affair completely--which he hasn't done. An affair doesn't truly end when the sex ends, it ends when the affair partners cease contact with eachother. Keeping in contact only feeds the emotional high both parties got from the affair. Unfortunately, this also sounds like gaslighting---your husband and the affair partner are claiming to be only friends, while there is still an emotional (and possibly sexual) relationship going on without your knowledge. Your husband isn't making a choice here; he's simply hoping to keep both his marriage and his relationship with the affair partner. You need to make the best choice for yourself at this time. Privately go to an attorney, look through your finances and have an honest talk with your husband. Demand, not ask, that he make a choice---either he becomes a full partner in the marriage by going to counseling with you and completely ending contact with the affair partner (even if it means changing jobs or moving), or he needs to leave the marital residence ASAP and expect a divorce.
