How can a husband help heal his wife from his emotional and physical infidelity?

  • The only way a husband can help his wife from the upset of infidelity is to earn that bond of trust that he has broken; not cheat again and it will take a long time before she can trust him again. When in doubt put yourself in her shoes ... what if she had cheated on you! It hurts and demeans the very person that loved you and although it hurts the wife it will be the husband that ends up paying for cheating. If the husband can afford it a nice romantic vacation somewhere would help, but take it slow and easy. If a vacation is not possible then realize most good wives just want their husbands to be at home; discuss different issues of every day life; take them out for dinner and dancing every so often and also buy them flowers. In other words spend quality time with her. However, do not over do it or she will wonder if her husband is cheating again. If there are children the husband could offer to look after them while she has a night out with her girlfriends. If the husband is out then he should phone her and give her a time when he will be home and where he is at and what he is doing. This may seem like a control mechanism from the wife, but the husband has to earn her trust back.
  • The only way a husband can help his wife from the upset of infidelity is to earn that bond of trust that he has broken; not cheat again and it will take a long time before she can trust him again. When in doubt put yourself in her shoes ... what if she had cheated on you! It hurts and demeans the very person that loved you and although it hurts the wife it will be the husband that ends up paying for cheating. If the husband can afford it a nice romantic vacation somewhere would help, but take it slow and easy. If a vacation is not possible then realize most good wives just want their husbands to be at home; discuss different issues of every day life; take them out for dinner and dancing every so often and also buy them flowers. In other words spend quality time with her. However, do not over do it or she will wonder if her husband is cheating again. If there are children the husband could offer to look after them while she has a night out with her girlfriends. If the husband is out then he should phone her and give her a time when he will be home and where he is at and what he is doing. This may seem like a control mechanism from the wife, but the husband has to earn her trust back.