How can a married man fool around with a younger woman and just go home to his spouse like nothing ever happened?

Answer 1

Women can be just as so-called cold blooded as men can be. Seems that the % of women cheating is getting close to the men who are. When someone cheats they are in denial and will make all sorts of excuses such as: My wife doesn't look after her looks ... she's gotten fat She's lazy She doesn't care about me She never has time for me I'm not basically #1 in our relationship I deserve better I deserve this affair and my wife's had it coming to her I've warned her I wasn't happy so this affair is OK. If I don't start the affair then I'm OK even if I allow the woman to seduce me Oh yes, there are far more excuses, but I agree with you ... cheating is cheating and it's a rotten shame. If people are that unhappy in their relationship they should have the courage to tell their mate. Why don't they? Because they want their cake and eat it too, just in case they make a mistake. Now here's a good point ... if that same wife who belongs to the cheater went out and cheated on her husband he would be hurt and infuriated even though he knows full well he did the same thing! Isn't that a joke! Some men really do feel guilty (as some women do) and it's usually because the couple has never sat down and communicated their feelings to one another. Communication is the most important thing in a relationship, and we all know men aren't particularly good at this, so it's up to the wife to pull it out of him. By finding out the problem that either one of them might have, or they feel their marriage has become dull, they can come up with many resources to spice things up. Perhaps in-laws or friends could take the kids for a weekend while the couple go away. It's tough when women are either home, working, or raising kids and the men just don't get the fact that they can come home from work, sit in a chair, have a beer or wine and belch to their hearts content, while a woman's work is never done and they wonder why their wives are tired???? It's time to teach husbands these facts. My husband and I sit down after he comes home from work. He may have tea with me, a beer or wine and we talk about our day. Then if there are problems or we are angry with each other we talk that out too. Sometimes we go for walks and talk things out. Must be working because we've been married 33 years and we still really love each other. It appears in marriage the kids come along, or people work long hours, and there is the bills to be paid, illness' in family, etc., etc., and sometimes we just pass each other like ships in the night. It's not meant to be this way and it really is the woman who should clue into these things, because men simply aren't made this way and never will be. I often get busy and realize that I've ignored my husband at times and although he never complains, I MAKE TIME to be with him and we have a blast together.