To simplify this it's when a person totally controls the wife and children and has no rhyme or reason for any decisions they may make. Here are some clues to emotional abuse regarding wives and children: Not giving the wife any control of the finances. Not allowing her to have a car. Not allowing her to go out with friends. Not giving her freedom of her own personal opinions and if she gives one the abuser will tell them to shut-up or they don't know what they are talking about. Controlly her like a child as to what she would like to buy for herself and the home (within reason.) Verbally abusing the wife in front of friends or the children. Calling the wife names such as "stupid", "fat", "a cow" or she isn't a good mother (they do this on purpose because it's the one thing that really hurts most mothers) or she never can cook a decent meal (when there is absolutely nothing wrong with the meal.) I have a girlfriend whose husband will literally take the dinner plate and turn it upside down if he doesn't like the meal on that particular night. I was shocked she actually took this abuse because if my husband did that he'd be wearing the plate and whatever was on that plate! Easier said than done, well my first husband was verbally/physically abusive and I never took one thing he had to dish out to me. He was cruel and miserable and nothing pleased him. One day I hit him in the face with a plate of spaghetti because he had said some very cruel and upsetting things about my brother (I thought my brother was dead) and when my husband said "it was joke" I flipped out. There he sat with spaghetti hanging off his face and the best he could offer up was "You clean this trailer up!" We were living in a construction camp at the time. I told him I'd be happy to clean up the trailer, so I went out and got the garden hose and proceeded to go right through the trailer and I nailed his hide while I was at it. NEVER again did he ever joke with me that way again, but he did continue to cheat. As far as children the verbal abuser can be that he's mean to the bone with them verbally by saying hurtful things or making remarks to them about what a miserable mother you are to not allowing the children to go out with friends, go to special events and loves the total control of making not only the children miserable, but the wife as well. Calling the children names, taking their self-confidence away from them and giving the children the distinct impression they are stupid and useless. If this is happening to you then you need to know the law and the fact that YOU own half of everything he has! See a lawyer on the QT. So, you won't be destitute if you should want to take the children and leave him. If you are thinking of staying with such a person for the sake of the children don't!!!! It solves nothing and it can cause future psychological problems for you and your children. If he is not abusive then stand your ground when the children are not home (if they are young have a relative look after your children for the night) and stand your ground with this bully! Tell him how it's going to be and if they don't like it that's the end of the relationship. The court of law generally would rather the children stay with the mother and will also decide if your husband is suitable enough as a father to have partial custody. If the children don't want to see their father the court of law will take this into consideration as well. Good luck!
If she is always walking on egg shells around him, or he is never happy or satisfied. If he has a pattern of abuse in his past. It could be that he watched his dad abuse his mom.
Hi - i don't exactly know your answer but children are neglected or abused every day!
If your mum abused you emotionally, I think the proper thing to do is to talk to her. Let her know how hurtful her action is.
Also, I'm only 12 so it's not like I can really do something about it. I'm emotionally abused by my dads aunt who was hired to clean our house. But she always makes me do it while her and my brothers and sisters have fun. She always yells at me when I don't do something and calls me worthless, a brat, over dramatic and stuff like that. My parents don't believe me and think I am just being dramatic and I know I'm not. Somebody please, please help I do not know what to do!
Law wise I dont know if there is a punishment but I do know that when some one is being emotionally abused they suffer from low self esteem, feeling unworthy and like they dont matter. It leads to many psychological issues as well.
i don't know but if you are being abused or he is making your life miserable you can call children's helpline and ask about it. Even if your not being abused you can call them and ask about it. The number is 1800 55 1800.
While unabused kids do well in school most emotionally abused people do not, what happens is when there insulted by someone they trusted "parents' and they keep putting them down and drowning all there self esteem it triggers something in there brain tissue and makes there stress hormones of the roof and causing the child to not be able to concentrate and also causes the child to grow slower and there brain to take things in slower.
No they will focus more on running away then school why do u want to know
They became scared or aggressive .But most will be normal if taken from there and put with a living family . If you know an animals being abused report it!!
You may be emotionally attached if you find yourself constantly thinking about a particular person or situation, feeling a strong connection or bond that affects your mood, behavior, and decision-making, and experiencing emotional distress when you are separated from that person or situation. Emotional attachment often involves feelings of intimacy, closeness, and dependency.
Animal and child abuse are issues to be taken very seriously. They both have different forms of abuse such as neglect and physical abuse. Both are happening all around the world, and many are trying to help those being abused. Please tell someone you trust if you know someone who is being abused or you are being abused.
Go to the department of social services. Or better yet, go to your uncle and have him go with you. That way they know that you have a stable home to stay in. Good luck with you and God Bless:) * You can
Speak anonymously to your school counselor or nurse. They will know what to do, and can keep you out of it.