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How can you be friends with the one you love if you've just broken up and is it worth staying friends even though it hurts that you can't have her or should you not talk but you don't want to lose her?
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∙ 12y ago
My hurting friend, I am a disabled Nam vet with many scars on my heart from the exact thing you speak of. Because you care, there is no "cure", but I found the best I could do is maintain the frindship from a distance for a while, and kindle a new "Love" with someone else. That is the only thing that will push the hurt out of your heart. If your Friend is truly a friend, they will be happy that you are happy. Much luck and God bless you.
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∙ 18y ago
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∙ 12y agoIt depends why you broke-up. If you just had an argument then it's worth trying to patch things up. If she's found someone else, then I'd move on. I don't believe for one minute that lovers who split up can remain friends. One of the two will always be deeply in love with the other and it hurts! If you don't think you can sit down with her like two rational adults and discuss what went wrong (and she isn't seeing another guy) then I'd walk away. If you bump into her somewhere be pleasant and smile.
Good luckMarcy
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