How can you contest a restraining order when the wife twisted every thing around the police were never called there is know proof of what she said to get the order?

Answer 1

Get a lawyer, and file immediately for divorce. Speaking from personal experience, it doesn't matter if a word of it is true or not, men are automatically assumed guilty, and even if your wife drops the proceeding. It'll be assumed you sweet talked her or threatened her into to dropping it. My wife went off her bi-polar meds, hit me, and I called the police. They basically laughed at me, and let her leave with our daughter. Two days later she filed for a Civil Restraining order with all kinds of wild accusations, not one of which was true. She was back on her meds before the hearing on the Order, and retracted all of it, telling the court she had been off her meds and had made it all up to get back at me for calling the cops. The judge glared at ME while dismissing the case, saying "If there is any violence going on it had better stop!" So no matter what, your screwed, even if your wife recants, the police and courts will assume you to be a batterer, and her a victim.