How can you get over an ex of 6 years who you are still in love with if he keeps coming in and out of your life and says he wants to be friends but he's in a different relationship already?

Answer 1

You need to speak to him and tell him to stop coming in and out of your life as it is not fair on you, tell him you are trying to get over him and his constant chopping and changing of behaviour is not helping. Put his in his place, and don't let him keep hurting you. You need to separate from him completely until you are able to get over him otherwise this could become an obsession for you, and ruin your life. Try and move on, and don't obsess over what has passed, think of it as as life experience. Focus on your own life, career, education, health etc.

AnswerThis is an ex of 6 YEARS!He is part of your past.It is really hard to let go but this was something you should have done a LOOONG time ago...Focus on now.Tell this guy to leave you alone once and for all.You have to stop seeing him and erase everything about him.Do not leave a trace of him.He isn't worth it. If he cared about you as much as you care about him, he wouldn't do this to you.Leave him in the past from this day forward and remember him as a good memory that was happy while it lasted.Every sunrise symbolizes a new begining.. watch the next sunrise by yourself. Think, think, think. Now begin this day with new happy things. What do you want to do today?ask yourself. Then do it..

Answer 2

Girl call him you guys are suppose to be friends right!So call him and be a good friend maybe he's going through something right now.

AnswerYou are young. I know that you have probably heard this over and over again, "Just give it time." When I was your age I heard that all the time and I just wanted people to shut up. But as I got older and wiser I understood what they meant and realized that it was true. After about a month, 6 months, a year and so on, I forgot about him. Good luck with you and God Bless:) AnswerAll i will say is it is not easy to be friends with someone who used to love you, who you still love.

My ex of 6 months also broke up with me. It has been about 4 weeks now, we were still arguing up until last week when he said to me the sooner we put all this past us the more chance we have staying friends and talking in the future.

Ask yourself this. A guy who hurts you and whom you are still in love with, can you stay in contact with him without breaking down into tears if you hear or see something that you know will take you back to the 1st stages of hurt?

As much as you hate when people say: "don't worry about him" or "give it time" it is actually the most logical advice to take. It is difficult but will help you alot. I heard all that, i was cut, crying and carrying on.. but then you realise. What is it that is so bad for you to feel this down? your alive, breathing, living, healthy and gorgeous why bring yourself down for someone who has hurt you.

Relationships should only be entered into by those who know what they want, take time to know the other person befor commiting. All this will come to you if you let it. Right now you can't afford to see or speak to him, stay friends and you will see when you are moved on and stronger he will appear un-expectedly and you will in his eyes be a changed person one that he will want and kick himself for hurting and leaving you