Great question! But also important is how can you every trust him again. Ultimately, the answer to both questions is simple to express, but hard to do. You need to be able to "forgive" the infidelity.
You shouldn't have cheated, you explain it to him before he does.
yes. you have to have them.
No never you see, I would never liked to be cheated either.
You either take care of them or your EX spouse does.
I guess you "could" get MRSA from your cheating spouse, although MRSA is not commonly spread sexually.
If he was cheated on then it was bad enough that he got cheated on but now a bunch of strangers know too. Please respect Yamashita's private life.
It is possible, but it will take time for trust to be rebuilt.
No not really, I cheated on her a few times as well and we have been married for over 4- years now.
Because you are dumb enough to stay, apparently.
find a new guy who you are sure really loves you
Some things are better left unsaid, DON"T TELL
If this is a one time affair your spouse has had then 'to err is human' and if they are remorseful you have a greater chance of saving your marriage. Instead of worrying about your self respect realize that percentages of affairs between married couples is high and that you are not the only person dealing with this problem. Take the bull by the horns and let your spouse know that you are not putting up with another affair and the both of you should seek counseling. The Counselor is not there to blame one or both partners, but to give the couple tools to help them through their marriage problems. Keep your head high because you were not the one that cheated and no matter how high the statistics of one spouse cheating on another it is still unacceptable in society. If your spouse has cheated more than once then pack then you are far better to file for divorce because the statistics are high they will cheat again.