How can you tell if your friends don't really want to be your friends anymore and are just using you?
Most of us have gone through an array of friends and some are worth hanging onto and others take you for granted or abuse your thoughtfulness or good heartiness. If someone is always laying their problems on you, but never takes the time to listen to any of your problems, hopes or dreams, then kick these ones to the curb. If they borrow money off you or crash at your place all the time get rid of them and learn to say the word "NO!". If they flirt with your boyfriend (if you have one.) If they constantly get you into trouble with something you are not comfortable doing then these are not friends. All our lives we'll bump into the good and bad of people, and with age, so comes wisdom. We've all made mistakes and picked the wrong so-called friend, but we should learn from it. Remember to never change who you are if you are kind, generous and honestly care about your friends. I call it "cleaning out my closet" every couple of years. I look at some new friends I've made and if they are always asking something of me, but give little of their time to me I will just walk away from them. If one is gutsy enough to ask why they haven't seen me around I tell them the truth. Even with the truth most never get what a true friend is. Some people will come into your life for a few days, and some people will stay for awhile, while a few will be your friend for life. Each person (good/bad) makes an imprint on you and that's how we learn. I've had some good friends for well over 30 years, but just as my father told me when I was young, "If you can count on one hand good friends then consider yourself lucky." That's exactly what it's turned out to be. 5 good friends I'd trust with my life and, in turn they can trust me with theirs. Marcy
Well If You Still Go To School During A Lesson Send Her/Him A Note Saying Im Sorry For.... And I Really Want To Be Friends With You Again. If You Dont Go School Anymore If You Have Her/His Phone Number Try And Call Her/Her When You Think Or Know They Will Be Out And Leave A Message Sayin What I Said On The First Paragraph Or Talk To Them Directly On The Phone. Your Choice.
If its your friends, dont go screaming I QUIT!!!! you say you dont like the genre of music you play and you say sorry and you still want to be friends. or say you dont like the way you dont get to make desisions with the band. If they are not really your friends just say i quit an say see you in the battle of the bands. If it's your teacher then have your…
What to do if your friend is really annoying and you dont want to be her friend anymore but cant tell her or your friends or family?
You tell them why you don't want to be friends anymore and you gently say "i don't want to be friends anymore i am sorry" as easy as that. You kindly say sorry and finish the friendship. Answer Don't do it on facebook! Just gradually delay answering their calls, replying to emails or spending time with them. But, first, remember friends are precious and make sure you are leaving them for good reason.
You dont like your best friend anymore and you want to tell her but you dont want to hurt her feelings what do you do?
just leave them alone, ignore there calls, and change up your habits as far as the things you guys did as best friends, start hanging out with others friends " if you have them" and start spending time with your man, family.. just think.... is this what you really wanna do?? but god bless you in your choice... god is love....
Long Answer: you can call them a true friend if you two get along all the time and barley ever fight but if your not sure and you two get in big fights every single day, you have to think about what to do. that happened to me but we're still friends but we barley ever hang out anymore. so think about what your going through. Short Answer: make a change and DONT fight anymore!