* Many men can be very close to each other as brothers only. They may spend more time together going out to a bar; seeing a sports game or have similar hobbies, but this does not mean they are gay. It's called 'male bonding.' Be very wary how you approach this issue because accusing someone straight of being gay could cause more problems in the marriage. A married couple should be able to communicate well. You could state to your husband that you feel his best friend is getting a little too close for comfort and that he spends more time with his best friend than you and express your concerns, but do not accuse your husband or his best friend of being gay.
You'll need to tell your husband first.
You can definitely tell you best friend that you have feelings for them and that is why you can't be friends anymore.
it is very possible, your husband could also have feelings for him,but at the same time have feelings for you.A choice needs to be made by your husband.if he loves you enough he should tell his friend to go.
If he's ur best friend, he will understand when you ask him: "Do you like me., not as a friend, but possilby more? be honest" if he's such a good friend then he wont lie and tell u the truth.
I would tell my friend not to say lie more about him. I would also not get angry and will be friendly to that friend who said lie about my best friend. Then only he will recover him.
You already know two wrongs don't make a right so the best thing to do is let your husband know about his affair and that his friend told you and is now interested in you. Be careful of gossip! Communication is the best skill anyone can have so sit down and calmly discuss this with your husband. It is also up to you to make it plain to your husband's so-called friend that you are not interested in him and stay clear of him. This is no friend of your husbands because he is hoping to have an affair with you behind your husband's back.
first, you can have more than one BEST friend. but a true BEST friend, will always have your back, tell you the truth, and stick up for you no matter what.
Acts different around you
if you're trying to tell him you love him as more than a friend, your best bet is NOT to do so over facebook. Do it in person.
tell your best friend but tell her not to tell her bro.
Tell them that your marride and you love your husband and to stop messing around cause you dont like them that was
ask a friend to tell him