Your wife and coworker may have to work together, but it doesn't mean she is cheating with him. In today's world many people have to work O/T or go to meetings so that doesn't prove anything either.
You have three choices:
There are some indicators to look for. For example, sudden disinterest in sex with you, acts detached, disappears for periods of time, breaks in her normal day to day routine. However, you would only be guessing, and at times guessing wrong. The only way to know for sure, is to catch her in the act, (not necessarily having sex). Many individuals hire private investigators, but that becomes expensive. Another option is to just tell her what you feel, and would like to discuss it with her through sincere, open, honest, and direct communication. However, you must prepare yourself for whatever the answer might be. It's never an easy situation.
All of the above is good,and you should also check bank statements and credit card statements ect to see if money is being spent for hotels,resturants,movie theaters or ATM withdraws from strange locations..
If the wife is home alot more than you are,you could try placing a few hidden cameras around the house such as in the living room and the bedroom and or one pointing at the driveway..they are fairly cheap and many are very small and cant be noticed easily,some can be watched by remote upto a mile or two away,some can even be watched via an internet connection from anywhere you are at and others are self-recording and you can even get them that pick up sound,so you could also listen to her talking on the phone at home.
About 90% of the time if she is cheating she is cheating at home and it wont take long to find out...Humans are creatures of habit so if you remain silent and just wait and watch for awhile you can figure out their routine,and then slip home very silently and catch them both in the act and deal with the offending invader of your marriage with a punishment you deem to be fitting...
Ask her.
it means that you make his day?
Tell the coworker it is not working and if that does not work tell him or her that u will call there partner and tell them what they are doing !!!
tell him that you don't want to get in trouble by his wife, and tell him that you can be friends. Just make sure he doesn't slobber on you!
gee i dont kno...tell them!
just tell him
Try to change the subject.
I would rather see my wife hurt from me being honest Then seeing her hurt from me being dishonest
if it doesnt affect you negatively
It's in the little everyday things that matter, not the big display stuff. Do you ever thank her if she always does your laundry or makes you lunch? Do you ever pay her a random compliment? Do you ever tell her you love her WITHOUT looking for sex? Just look for ways to make her feel appreciated and not taken for granted. If a coworker did something nice for you, you'd have a gracious response. Treat your wife like a coworker:)
how can someone smell like sex?????
He wants to cheat - is it with you, if you were propositioned be sure to way your pros and cons as you will be ruining a marriage and possibly family. If you found out he wants to cheat with someone then that really is none of your business and its best not to get involved.