If you are old enough to be thinking that she might be, then you are probably old enough to ask her. Before you do, sort out in your head what you know about lesbians and gay men.
Lesbians and gays are basically born to be lesbian and gay. Their orientation seems to be formed before birth, according to most studies. Remember that she is the same mother that bore you and brought you up. She hasn't changed. You just know her a bit better.
If you are thinking she might be, then you could use your reasoning when you talk to her. "Hey, mom, I've noticed you don't have many men friends." Or, "I've noticed that all your sleepovers are with Auntie Kate". Or something like that. Or you could bring up some well known lesbian and make some approving comment. See where that goes.
If your mother is a lesbian, she is probably just waiting for the right time to tell you. So you asking may be just what she wants.
Of course, you might be jumping to the wrong conclusions. Think of that first too!
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The best way to find out is to ask her. If she tells you she is a lesbian, then it is so. If she says she isn't, it's best to believe her unless she states otherwise.
they like girls
tell him the reasons why you are a lesbian...he will understand.
no
You can tell if you are a lesbian if you are attracted exclusively to other women.
Not tell anyone else. Wait for her to come out of the closet, the worst thing you could do is break your trust with her.
no
Because she was born that way.
let her do what she wants with her life
If you are a curious and need to tell if you are a lesbian, think about a woman's body. If it turns you on in a sexual way, you are likely a lesbian.
You ask her.
That your a lesbian
You ask her.