How can your boyfriend say how much he loves you and needs you then break up with you two days after telling you that and say he doesn't love you anymore and blames the break-up on you?

Answer 1

== My girlfriend of 4 years did the exact same thing to me recently. First, she asks me to buy her a $300.00 coat, then 2 days later she tells me she loves me , that I am the best boyfriend, she tells me that she wants to marry me, move in with me and my parents. Then, the very next day, she breaks up with me, and 4 days later she is on a date with her Ex-boyfriend who she left 4 years ago to be with me. I did everything for this girl who now chooses to tell people that I was the jerk, that I was verbally abusive, etc,. She is bad mouthing me now, because she doesnt have the guts to tell people the truth, and that is that she cheated on me to be with her Ex. My answer to you is, be angry for a while, be sad for a while and then be thankful forever. These losers did us both a favour. They lied to our faces, used us until they didnt need us. You and me and everybody else do not need people like that in our lives, they are poison. Your girlfriend or boyfriend should be someone who makes you feel secure. You can never go back to these kinds of people because you will never know where you stand. They will be telling you one thing, but secretly be planning something else, behind your back. Good luck to you, I know these things suck, but time, pain and positive thinking will get you through this. == He probably was trying to salvage the relationship when he said the first thing. I am not blaming anyone, but the relationship was not working out, and he wanted to express his desire for the relationship to continue. He was likely angry and frustrated, reasonably so, when it did not. It is not your fault, it's both of your faults and nobody's fault - it always is. It just didn't work out. He'll probably get over it soon. == Don't be insulted. He didn't mean to hurt you, he was just angry that a relationship he had probably worked hard for was falling apart right in front of him, and, after trying to save it, was ruined. We guys don't think so hard about these things; we just do what comes to our minds. ANSWER Boys suck. kthxbye. p.s im not lesbian, but one dick'ed of a boy just basically did this to one of me mates. so yano what; i blame all of you. yep. all males. deal with it.