How can you leave your husband?

Answer 1

Leave him!If he goes ta work,pack your stuff and go, your a free woman,u shouldn't be stuck with him,change ur cell # and only tell one person were ur going.It has to be a person u realy,realy trust though,o.k so u so this and quick!don't wait!

AnswerYou didn't say whether you had just fallen out of love with him or if you were abused. Either way don't stay in an unhappy marriage whether it's abuse or you just don't love him anymore. Even if you have children you aren't doing them any favors by staying with their father. You can see a lawyer and immediately file for divorce and your lawyer will advise you as to what reason you should be filing for divorce. If you are physically/mentally abused and you fear your husband you can either phone your local Mental House and they will direct you through the right channels or go to your nearest "Women's Selter" and they will take over for you.

The other poster was correct in saying that you should be careful who you talk too and pick one trusted friend to help you make the move and to leave when he is at work.

If you want to leave because you simply don't love him then please sit him down and tell him you want a divorce. If you leave the house in some States and certainly in Canada, you can be charged with desertion as far as what you will get monitarily/property-wise (such as the house, car, etc.) This could also mess up your chances of joint custody of any children you may have.

Plan what you are going to do! If you can't afford a lawyer there then phone the Bar Association and they can direct you to free counsel.

Good luck & God Bless

Answer 2

In fact you can not stop her from leaving. But you can ask her to talk to you about her reasons and "promise" to listen without comment for 2 minutes (120 seconds). I would suggest that you restrict you comments after those 2 minutes equally to two minutes. If you can agree to let your partner talk uninterruptedly you are already half way home.

Answer 3

You agree with him about everything. You say things like: If you really want to leave, you can leave, or, I want our relationship to work, but you're right, it's not working. Agree with him about EVERYTHING and you will stop fighting. No one wants to leave a person who understand the other. It saved my marriage. Take a look at stopyourdivorce.com

Clarification

The premise suggested at stopyourdivorce.com is a little more complete in the following statement:

Allow and accept, one hundred percent, whatever your mate thinks, feels, or does is perfectly okay. And watch them improve themselves.

Answer 4

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By asking this question, are the two of you having a problem or he is cheating on you. The only way you can leave your husband is if you are ready to move on and have your own life without pain. Second step for you is talk to him and tell him what you wanted, if you can do this it will make your life easier. I've done it, when I found out that he was having an affair and fell in love with this married woman.

Answer 5

You cannot prevent someone leaving you. They obviously don't want a relationship with you. Why would you want to be with someone if they don't want to be with you. don't waste your time trying to make an unhappy relationship find someone that is willing to stay. Now that's a good answer.

Answer 6

First, you can't stop her. It's up for her to decide how she will handle this crisis. Now she needs the facts so she can make an informed decision. What you need to do is be honest with her.

Try to imagine all the things going through her head as she analyzes, without all the facts, the reasons why you betrayed and humiliated her. You have a lot of explaining to do before she has enough information to decide for herself whether there is any reason for her to stay, whether she could ever trust you and whether it is worth trying to rebuild a relationship with you. Try to explain why you sought intimacy elsewhere. She may be blaming herself for what you did. You really should have thought about this (the death of your marriage) before you decided to play around.

You could begin by writing to her since you have a lot of explaining to do and she is probably not able to listen right now. Try to explain your behavior, how you feel about your wife, your life together and your future. Explain your feelings for her, how you plan to make this up to her and how you plan to regain her trust. Then give her some time to decide what she wants to do.

Answer 7

You can't really. You cannot stop her feelings for someone. Sorry.