How do you ask wife for bdsm?

Answer 1

You could incorporate some mild forms of bondage into your sex play, like holding her hands and not letting her move them, or commanding her to not move them, and then ask her how she liked that. Then you could say you'd like to know what it feels like, and ask her to do the same to you. If she shows interest in that, you could talk to her about doing more of it sometime when you arent in bed. Just say something like "what we did last night was fun, wasn't it? How would you feel about exploring it more?" Then you could suggest that you get a DVD on bdsm so that she can see what sorts of things you are interested in trying.