ALWAYS REMEMBER: The three most boring words in the English language are ME, MY and I. This can apply to not only boy-girl relationships, but throughout life - at work, in church, anywhere you encounter people. Learn to LISTEN, not just HEAR what someone is saying. Only talk about yourself when asked and only then to someone you would care to have a relationship with. No one wants to hear how many medications you are currently taking or why your mother's uncle's brother-in law sold his vintage gourd collection for $157. Also, if you are in a relationship with someone who only talks about themself, it most likely won't get any better with time. Read interesting books with someone you care about and exchange theories on the plots. Find a hobby that interests you and learn to be happy with yourself. If you need someone else to make you happy, then you're not looking in the right place! Keep It Simple Sweetheart (KISS)!
How have you been?
How was your day?
Suggested topics:
Did you win the game of _____ last week? Then, once you run out of things to say think of something funny.
Just talk about how you think your relationship is going, but if you want to stay with your girlfriend only talk about the good things, that is the key point of a conversation.
Main topic:
Ask her about another couple, how they are doing. She will have much to say, it won't make any difference to you or anyone, and a series of "uh huh's" and "oh really's" tossed in by you will have her thinking you are a fabulous conversationalist.
Remember, the key is to let the other ramble on, then they'll love you forever.
(The opposite of this is to ask a guy about some sport event or car being fixed up. Just nod and act like you care, they'll talk all day.)
if you are starting to run out of things to talk about ask him what hes doing tomorrow or just tell him he's cute. Ask him what his favorite color is. I'm sure hes thinking the same thing you are because he is worried he will say something "lame" so just don't be afraid and say whats on your mind.
ask him what Hobbes he likes and if you got one in common then you to can talk about that or if you can't find one that you like and that he likes then you can talk about what movies that you and he likes.
That all depends on what he's like, if he's energetic, why don't you talk about sports, if he's kinda shy, tell him " It's okay to be shy" or to break the ice tell him.... stuff that he relates to, :)
About, life and kids, that is if you really love him, and he is not cheating on you. Another thing you can talk about would be, adding some humor into your life, he will LOVE if you add humor. So start out with prompts like, hey hows your days been... Hope it been healthful.
are you a girl well you really dont get around dont you just be your self he will probrably like that
Ask questions, talk about things you have in common and what happened during your day. It shouldn't be a big effort to talk to your boyfriend though.
To talk with a girl, approach her with respect and kindness. Find common interests to start a conversation, actively listen to what she has to say, and maintain good eye contact. Be yourself and try to make her laugh to create a comfortable and enjoyable conversation.
Pay attention to what he says to you, his friends and what you can see he enjoys. Unfortunately, this probably means a lot of sports! LOL Ask questions about his interests and do a little reading and learning about what he is interested in so you can converse with him on his level. Don't forget, he should do the same for you. Good luck Marcy
make conversation.
you don't have to give him anything, but he would like it if you did but I don't know your boyfriend so I don't know what he likes.
Call him and ask him to have sex with you
this depends on the boy of coarse, but the primitive instincts of man vs. modern society is one that usually works...
He might be about to break up with you.
Having a conversation with your boyfriend and his bestfriend about what bothers you about his best friend may be a good way to cope.
One way to start the conversation is to ask how he is doing. You could also ask him how his day was and what he will be doing tomorrow.
Start telling him what you did today and that should start a conversation.
we have a conversation and tell each other we love each other
it really depends on how far in the relationship it is. If its a new relationship then it can be a little difficult to find things to talk about, but sports and movies are good topics. If it is a closer relationship then future goals are a good conversation starter.