My younger sister is a narcissist as well as a slob and everything that goes along with it. she leaves her used tampons/pads unwrapped on the sink next to the toilet (and i have to share that bathroom with her : / ), and her room is a mound of dirty clothes, you can not see her floor nor her shelves b/c of the mess...there is an example of how dirty she is.
she is a very two-faced person. one second she is nice the next second she is calling my mom a stupid b!tch, my dad a heartless a$$hole, and myself a heartless b!tch and telling me i am worthless and to go to he!!. also i find she likes to use the line to me "just because your married doesn't make you an adult so stop acting like one" in a snide tone of voice. she takes great joy in pleasure in acting as though she is superior to everyone in the family, but me especially. she is a ridiculous person and she will snap at you if you tell her nicely to put her tampon in the garbage. oh, she is also a compulsive lier to top it off.
there is no reasoning with her what so ever. she does not see truth, she turns everything you say into something to make you sound like your inferior to her.
i struggle with ignoring her because one, i have to live with the nut job, and two i do not put up with her when she says such hurtful things to my parents so in turn i get turned into the bad guy.
My best advice for people who have to live with a narcissist is to: not scream and yell because they take advantage of that, keep your voice calm and firm when confronting the selfish person as well as directing the conversation to them and saying "this is about you, not me"
An argument will go two ways:
A.) they accept the sentence this is about them and not about yourself and chose to humor you and talk/argue it through
B.) they deflect and make it your problem because narcissists do not like to accepting any responsibility for whatever is happening.
just remember that most arguments with the narcissistic person will not end in an agreement, or if it does it is short lived because they always revert back to their self absorbed selves. also do not scream or yell at them, keep your voice calm and firm, otherwise that will ALWAYS be used against you and call you a child. that and no one listens or takes a person seriously if they cant control their temper.
One last thing; do not communicate with them by phone via text, or email or facebook because we all know how they always have the last word and like to post every angry/depressing thought on the web for the world to see.AnswerThe only thing that will bring you any peace is ignoring her. I know!
I just wanted to add what was said before. RUN!! But it's not easy in a large family. There have been years and years of pain before I realized what the deal was. I wouldn't wish a narcissistic sibling or parent or spouse on anyone. If I would have gone to therapy 20 years ago when I was half crazy; it wouldn't have taken half a century to finally get that V8. Knowing what she is now has given me so much peace; at least to know that I wasn't 'crazy, inferior, not loved as much' whatever. Now we are trying to protect the next generation; because the child is just like the mom; and has already created havoc. But is the child a pawn of the mom? sometimes I think. which is really sad. My Mother too; and father have been victimized by this sister; so that they have believed a lot of untruths throughout our lives about others in the family; and have treated them differently because of it. The outrageous lies to cover things they have said; the contradictions; the absolute MEANNESS!Run!Stay completely away from her and don't tell her anything about yourself or what's going on in your life. She can be as sweet as honey and it's usually to find out anything that she can about you. When she does she will just turn anything she finds out around to her advantage to hurt you. My N sister will even use my poor 76 year old mother(she's her supplier of anyone this N sister wants to hurt) to come to my home to find out anything that she can about me. She will make up the most ridiculous untruths about me. Not knowing what's going on in your life almost kills the N people. I have to be very careful of what I say about anything to do with my life so it doesn't get back to her and can't be used to turn others againist me or to hurt me. I know because I've been through this crap all of my life. I finally had to stop any contact with my family because of this sick sister.
The most unwanted characters are those with a Narcissistic personality disorder, and the way to deal with them is to avoid them.
block her incoming calls.
Seeing as your sister is not a boss in a video game, I'd say that you don't and that your sister probably isn't old enough to be an actual narcissist.
You keep reminding her that you are her child after all. Tell her that you are updated version of her!
Get out of there! You can't change them, so I move on to more sane people.
You get far away from them, as fast as you can. And you stay away. www.vainencounters.com
The best way to deal with a narcissistic mother-in-law is to "kill her with kindness." This method works on most people, by the way. Be as nice and polite as you can possibly be but don't engage her more than you absolutely have to. Remain calm and don't feed into her narcissism and neediness.
If one has a bad sister, there are a few ways in which to deal with her. For example, one can approach one's parents or guardians and explain how the sister is behaving.
There is nothing NORMAL about a narcissistic. There is nothing NORMAL about stealing. This is just the way she is and it's wrong no matter what.
Tell your parents, and if that doesn't work deal with her yourself.
You don't. You get away as soon as possible. And get counseling for YOURSELF.
He is a narcissistic jerk.
call your manager and say she stole money from the store! hahaha
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Probably, staying away from her would be the smart thing to do. If you have children together that may be difficult - if not - try the No Contact rule. If she is your ex why do you have to deal with her at all assuming that there is no children together.
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If the person is an adult, you would be wise to avoid dealing with him/her at all. You are not responsible for their personality disorder, and attempting to ameliorate it will only lead to more problems than you have already. You can get support at this site: http://thepsychopath.freeforums.org/
Narcissists only occasionally recognize their own narcissism! Even if they do, they rarely care.
It is not your job to deal with him, nor to diagnose him. Your job is to take care of yourself. We suggest either staying on his good side by catering to his whims, or removing yourself from the situation.
Modest is the usual opposite of narcissistic.
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