How do you deal with a very narcissistic woman who will do anything for a reaction from you considering she lives with a man?

Answer 1

Your question to yourself should be ... Why do I put up with it? Narcissistic people are often grouped into selfishness, arrogance, perfectionism, but it doesn't make them a narcissist. Some people are just mean clear to the bone and don't care about other people's feelings.

If it were me, I'd kick this person out of my life. They are usually not worth the air they breath. Find someone else that you can have fun with, know what loyalty and honesty is about. This person is pushing your buttons, but if you stop the button pushing and move on what do they have left? Good friendships or lovers should be a fun experience with sharing, and not all this hurting.

You're stronger than you think. Stand your ground and tell this person to hit the bricks!

Good luck Marcy

AnswerIgnore them. AnswerLook, I have to be honest with you. This sounds a little bit like me. In fact its exactly the same as me. Trust me on this one. DO NOT GIVE HER ANY ATTENTION. She does not exist. We thrive on attention and we need to get it when we want it.

If you like her and plan on maybe getting together with her once she has left this man then you have to show her who is boss. If you ignore her and stop making her feel special then you will actually get attention from her. Her blood will boil knowing that you are not interested. She will then approach things differently because she no longer has controll and the ball is in your court. If she does nothing then you know she was just an attention seeker and had no intention of actually getting with you. If she does change then you know that she is interested. you wont even have to ask her to leave the other man because she will be so upset that you no longer like her that she will leave him just to have more of a chance of getting with you.

Ps, women like this are very hard work and need to be told who is boss otherwise they will wrap you round there little finger and then you will be in a tangle.

Good Luck.

AnswerDo not give her any attention, good or bad, period. Avoid her publicly and walk away if she tries to get you attention. Narcissists don't change and you will not get any satisfaction from any dealings with her.