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That depends on YOUR personality and whether you can ever trust her again. Marriage is based on trust. If she did this to you once will you ever be able to trust that she won't do it again? She used her affairs as a way to punish you and made certain that you found out so that you would be hurt. It's an attempt to control you and change you into someone else. It's a blatant attempt at manipulation and if you DO decide to stay with her you both need to go in for some serious marriage counselling; her for her inability to be faithful and her attempts to manipulate and you for putting up with it and yes, for being a workaholic. BTW, our work is supposed to be what we do to pay for the lifestyle that we enjoy. On the one hand, it is not acceptable to love your work more than your family. On the other hand, your wife should not turn to other men. You two have some serious problems and I doubt that most relationships would ever be able to recover from them. I sincerely hope there are no children involved in this trainwreck.

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Q: How do you deal with your wife who confessed she was with 4 men after marriage and now feels guilty and wants to come back and says she cheated because you were a workholic and had no time for her?
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