How do you develop personality?

Answer 1

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Better do meditations.

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You can develop a better personality by forgetting about yourself. You think of how others feel in any situation you find yourself. You talk about what the other person likes to talk about, you listen more than you talk, you never talk about others who are not present unless it's something positive. Interest in others can't be faked, so if you're sincere about developing your personality, you have to be sincere about your interest in others.

Everyone finds people that they don't really like. Don't let this deter you. Even if the best you can do is be courteous to those people, do that. A secret to feeling positive about these people is, the second that you catch yourself judging something about them, stop immediately and deliberately think of what could be positive about them even if it's something small. Everyone has talents and abilities; make an effort to figure out theirs might be. If you never figure it out, it doesn't matter as long as you've overcome the negative thoughts about them and how YOU feel about them. They're not here to please you or fit into a mold that you design for them.

Practicing these skills is especially helpful when you're feeling bad or mad or upset about something. If you have self esteem problems, it may take some practice to get beyond your own feelings but the more you do it the more natural it becomes; the next thing you know, you won't be feeling quite so self conscious anymore.

The last, and probably most important part of this process, is to be sure that you don't let people take advantage of you. Being thoughtful or kind has no relationship to currying favor with others, bending over backwards, or believing that it will please someone else if you participate in something negative, like gossip. It's an easy mistake to make, but it will defeat your positive efforts and do more to hurt your self esteem than help anyone.

Unfortunately, this is a lifelong process. Because we're human, we have a natural tendency to think of everything in relation to oneself and how we feel. But you can renew your efforts anytime and as often as you want. Time spent considering others is never wasted (well, almost never).

Answer 2

physical, mental, moral and social behaviour acc. to the age.