If you are so very unhappy with him then the best thing to do is sit down with him and communicate your feelings with him. Tell him why you feel the way you do and with luck he may provide you with some information about himself that you didn't know and it may change your whole perspective of him (good/bad.) Be wary what you expect from a relationship. You could be expecting too much and you may simply be second-guessing how he feels about you. The only way you can make changes and grow in a relationship is by communication.
If you want to dump someone that really loves you but you don't want to hurt their feelings you sit down and have a talk with them. After you talk with them tell them that you can still be friends with them and make them feel better like give them a hug or a kiss on the cheek.
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What ever you do, do NOT lie to him. Had a girl do that to me once, and it stung more than the break up.
If you don't want to lose someone who loves you, but you don't love them you should be honest about your feelings. You can still have someone in your life without being in love with them.
i dont really get your question.do you mean how to arouse him or do you mean how to get him to tell you his feelings?
It means that if you say you love someone your feelings dont really show
I have a friend that has a similar problem how he delt with it was he got a life
well, you cant really "make" someone share their feelings with you. they might be a private person and dont like to talk about it until they are ready. if you really want to try though, then you can try to earn as much of their trust as possible and try getting into a deep discussion with them and tell them a part of your life that you dont normally tell others...they might open up a bit because they will know you are comfortable enough to share your feelings.
You can never actually be sure, but if there is flirting, staring, and defendence then you know he is true!!!! So dont worry girl, he's there when you need someone to cry on, and to be happy on =). Dont be scared to ask questions either or spread feelings, he is there for yoooooou!!!
Honestly? I don't think he meant it. either that or he's finding it really hard in identifying the feelings he has for you. ask him about it, but dont get to pushy, that'll push him away.
Maybe he really does love you but is scared to tell you! mostly boys are like that they dont like telling people there feelings ! <3
This is my opinion but i don't think you can change your feelings if you really like someone
Be polite and really think about how you would want to be treated if the shoe was on the other foot. But the best thing to do is to be honest with that person.
Love is an overused word. I am positive the boy does not love you. And you can not love someone and have a crush on another. Love is so special it is made for one person and one person only. Dont let them feed you lies! If he really loves you then he would not like someone else like that. You should find someone who loves you and only you. Good Luck!
i dont know you really hurt my feelings on that one but i always give second chanes so what the heck