I accept it because I know how it feels to be ignored and to feel guilty about what i did, and if they have the balls to come to you and apologize to your face, they deserve an okay, or at least a "You have to prove it"
You kill them with kindness, shoew them the affection that they never gave you. at the least they will feel guilty and come back to apologize.
You don't, or you say " Sorry, but why am I apologising?"
because might not feel he has done something wrong. Posted by a Male.
It means they want to apologize to you and make you feel good about yourself.
Apologize, apologize, apologize, and then get someone to fix it.
yes you have to apologize, especially if you would apologize if it was someone else.
AnswerYou can tell him or her that it is not your intention to make them feel bad but that you feel like the relationship is not working like you think it should, or something like "I think you are a really great person and I wish you all the best but I don't feel like we have the same goals, interests...", or whatever it is that made you want to break up with him/her. You obviously care about this person if you want to apologize for making him/her feel bad so apologize in a nice way and move on.
If I have made a mistake or have done something wrong I will feel guilty. My way of dealing with it is to go to the people I have done wrong and apologize to him or her. When I apologize I tell them what I did, how I was involved, and tell them I am sorry. I try my best to look them in the eye and give them a sincere apology. I don't really feel better in what I have done. I feel better knowing that I fessed up to what I did. I have learned that giving a sincere apologize goes a long way with someone you wronged.
You can just apologize , without qualifiers or rationalizations , and ask for forgiveness.
If you are constantly going at her about it, yes it's a light form of abuse. You can't make someone say or do something you want them too. What if she did apologize? It wouldn't have come from the heart on her own accord, but basically she may apologize just to get you off her back. Then what have you won? Nothing! People apologize when they mean it! If she isn't sorry for what she has done, then she simply doesn't feel she owes you an apology. I don't know what she did to you, but be sure you have all the facts. If you do, now you know that she has no remorse so you have a choice of being with her under these circumstances or moving on. Marcy
You should apologize. It makes you feel better and the other person feel better.
If you feel bad about it you can apologise.