How do you get back the love of your wife after you cheated?

Answer 1

Every night before you go to sleep tell her you love her and give her a soft kiss. If she is angry with you still do it as it makes her feel bad. Of course you don't want her to feel bad so don't over do it. On the weekends make her breakfast and in the evenings cook her dinner. Over dinner ask her how her day was and if she is feeling OK . Have a nice talk and she should regain trust. Just be a loving husband and show her that you love her.

I hope i helped :)

Answer 2

Do what you haven't done yet if she asks you to take out the trash don't give her a hard time just do it. Whatever she ask you to do just do it to the best of your abilities. Don't try so hard a woman respects a man when she doesn't have to baby him if you don't see any toilet paper don't tell her go get some. If the kids need help with their homework help whatever it takes to take a load off of her back sometimes a woman would like a break. Tell her how beautiful she is everyday. Take her out sometime show her how much she means to you with women actions speak louder than words get her some flowers or take her for dinner at her favorite restaurant don't let her your doing find out her schedule pick the best date and do it plan the whole thing without her saying a word it will totally knock her socks off and you might get something in return women like spontaneity so try anything

Answer 3

Give yourselves some time to calm down and let your guards down. Use this time to learn something new, enjoy and talk to friends but not about the break up.

Stop calling, stalking,texting,showing up unannounced. This is only pushing her further apart. She will be curious about this change and will answer return your call later.

When time has past you will leave a message on her phone that you want to thank her and agree with her decision. I know this sounds scary but you want to prove you are better.

This will definitely make her call you back. Now when you do talk (door has opened). You will begin starting over one day at a time. Do not blow this opportunity by accusations. This will send her running.

Be a listener and make her a priority like in the beginning.

Answer 4

• Breaking the bond of trust in a relationship is difficult to earn back and it is going to take constant dedication on your part and patience. It would also be a good idea to discuss with your wife about seeing a Marriage Counselor to help give you both the tools to communicate on a better basis and how to resolve problems that may come up in your marriage. The Marriage Counselor is not there to cast blame on anyone, but get to the root of the problems in the marriage and teach the couple some tricks of how to keep your marriage open and honest. People are simply human and although there are no real excuses for cheating some people do and feel they will have the best of both worlds ... their wife, home and possibly children, yet enjoying a new sexual relationship with someone else with no ties attached. The percentage of being caught for cheating is high. If this is the first time you have cheated then 'to err is human' but nonetheless you have wounded your wife deeply and she will not trust you for a very long time, but one day she will. By improving on your relationship with your wife and spending more time with her instead of looking for love or sex in all the wrong places may help the process heal quicker.

Answer 5

Well, to be completely honest, you can't make anyone do anything. But, if you are serious about getting back together, I have a few things that may help you. First remember the saying time heals all wounds? You have to give her time and space to sort things out in her head. Im not talking about a week. I'm talking about a few months. Then you must prove yourself. No one hands out trust on a silver platter anymore. You have to earn trust. That is the building block of marriage. You can't date other people in these next few months or "talk" to them. No one night stands. You have to be on you BEST behavior, even if she isn't looking. Try writting her a letter after the alotted time telling her exactly why you did what you did and how and why you are sorry. If you don't get a response, keep sending the letters. Send one every day if you have to (flowers and chocolate helps too) Let her know why you fell in love with her in the first place and be honest with her. If she tells you to stop with the letters do it for a while. Then just send little gestures to let her know your still thinking of her. That's all I have, my friend.

Answer 6

Confess tell her it will not happen again