How do you get out of the friend zone with a girl when your in high school?

Answer 1

Ouch man, the friend zone.

You have a few opitions:

A: Spend time with her doing what she likes to do outside of school. (IMPORTANT: always do or suggest something you know she's really into.) Use this time to read her out and see if she tosses you some signals that she is interested in you.

B: Talk with her and listen to her, when she asks about you answer BRIEFLY and throw the ball back in her court. Don't be pushy, in fact if it's a phone call, sometimes act as if you're a little too busy to talk at the moment. For every 3 times she calls you, you call her once. It NEVER hurts to make a girl laugh.

C: Go for broke. Tell her how you feel without really saying it. Instead make a casual attempt. Say something like "We should try dating." If she doesn't bite play it cool and continue on talking about something else. That one line would have cashed all your chips for the time being and she'll know how you feel about her without feeling you're over bearing, she may want to try at a later time. Don't use any lines you may have heard in some teen movies or you'll watch her fly off faster than an F-16 off a launch pad.