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How do you get over being afraid to leave your abusive relationship because you know he will cheat?
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∙ 18y ago
Hon, I can bet my bottom dollar this guy is already cheating on you, so the only fear you should have at this point is getting away from him and becoming an independent young woman. You don't need him! There are Abused Women's Centers around, or, if he's not violent, just pack your bags when he's not around and move in with a relative or friend. This guy is a loser and the sooner you get rid of him the better. Abusive people are about control and they seldom change and 99% of them never seek professional help for their abusive behavior. Good luck Marcy
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Why is it so hard to get out of an abusive relationship?
Women should get out of an abusive relationship because it may escalate from emotional abuse to physical or sexual abuse, sometimes even murder. No one deserves to be abused and to stay in an abusive relationship is not worth it. If you are being abused, please leave and find help, especially if you have children, you need to protect them too.
Is staying in abusive relationship a good idea?
You should definitely go. An abusive relationship is unhealthy for you both physically and emotionally. If you continue to stay with that abusive person, you will more than likely end up being attracted to more abusive people in the future. In fact some abusive relationships can lead to suicide and/or being murdered.
What are the possible reasons a woman would seek out a relationship where she is being controlled and why would she view that as love?
Usually women do this because it is all they know. Many women will pick partners that are abusive because they've had abusive fathers, etc.
Can get an answer from an abuser if you ask them reason for their abusive nature?
No, because if they are still being abusive, they see the world from another perspective. If you are expecting that this will happen or that you can convince someone that they are abusive, chances are that you won't see it happen. About all you can do is to call them on their behavior, saying how it makes you feel. A good book is Patricia Evan's The Abusive Relationship.
Why do abusive relationships exist?
It exist because the person being hurt stays in the relationship thinking the abuser will stop. Face reality this person has issues and they will not just up and change. I would advise anyone who is in an abusive relationship whether physical,emotional or verbal get out while you still can, because the abuser is not going to change magically.
How do you get out of a abusive relationship after being in for about 30 or more years.?
Getting out of an abusive relationship is the same, whether you've been together 30 days or 30 years. Please read the info in the link I provided below.
Can extreme jealousy turn abusive?
Yes, by being jealous in a relationship can lead by abuse or can destroy your relationship it can make you suspicious and you will do anything just to guard her/him.
If your husband is being abusive and you tell him that you're going to kill him if he doesn't let go are you being abusive?
People tend to say things in anger. Since your husband is abusive you should consider going to a Woman's Abuse House to find help and learn tools to cope. No one has the right to abuse the other. Your relationship is toxic and you are in control of your life and not your husband. To tell him you are going to kill him is a serious accusation and when you get to this point it's time for you to leave this abusive relationship.
When do you leave an abusive relationship when their are kids involved?
The first time, should be the last time.Kids should really be put first in this situation because the trauma of an abusive environment can affect them as they grow older in so many ways.Also if this question is being asked on behalf of yourself, you deserve better, I'm sure because nobody deserves to be abused, especially in a relationship, it should be about love, happyness, trust etc and I know that in an abusive relationship there is more sadness than there is happiness. I'm sure you will have the love and support of your children if you were to leave and they will be the ones who bring you true happiness as they flourish in life.
Are you being emotioinally abused if he doesn't like any of your friends and you live near his family and rarely see yours because he disapproves of them and he doesn't trust your values?
No! Just because your relationship is not a good one does not make it "abusive" it just means it is not working. It seems that the rules are being made by only one person in the relationship and if you don't like that then either claim your right to equality or change the relationship. Don't be a victim or fall on the crutch of being abused.
How can you tell if a person is being threated in an abusive relationship?
they will cringe, sort of, when around their spouse and be very timid when doing something so as not to anger him/her.
How can once being in an abusive relationship affect future relationships Distrust of people how will the past abuse affect your lifestyle any unhealthy signs to watch for?
Some one who does not understand BDSM posted "being into bdsm is an unhealthy sign" this is a lie. All studies of people into BDSM have shown that most people into BDSM are happy normal people who just have kinks to there life. Most people who are into abusive relationships never get into BDSM relationships. If someone is into BDSM and there is also a abusive relationship going on all you need to do is look for the normal signs of a abusive relationship. Most BDSM couples for the most part have happy and healthy relationships but have a relationship that looks more like the idealized ones from the 1950's and may add play that would look abusive from the outside but is truly not. What I would tell people is take time to talk to both parties and look for the signs of an abusive relationship.
