How do you get over your ex-boyfriend who you dated for two years if you broke up with him five months ago because he was too possessive yet you still think about all the good times you had with him?
What you are going through is a grieving process. Grief is not
just reserved for those loved ones that have passed away. One can
grieve over a split relationship (including divorce), losing your
home to fire/flood or other natural catastrophe's or losing a pet.
You had a lot of good memories together and as humans all of us
wonder when going through a break-up what we did wrong, weren't we
good enough or just plain "what happened!" We like to think we're
doing everything right, but putting two people together in a close
relationship and especially when there is sex involved can just
become complicated at times. Sometimes we've misjudged that good
old chemistry that makes for a successful relationship. I'm a firm
believer in fate. I think we date different people and ride along
the highway of life. We have heartbreaks, we make mistakes but then
we finally come to our final road stop and that's when we find the
right person. Although you may feel now you love this person with
all of your heart he is not the right one for you and once you get
over the grieving process and move on you can be sure that in the
near future you will meet someone else and be so glad you did move
on. In most cases we can look back on people we have dated and kiss
the ground because we are so happy we didn't settle for a serious
relationship back then. I know I have.